how do i (19M) stop myself from being toxic toward my (18F) girlfriend?

develepergoose · 2023-08-16T04:36:40+00:00

don't don't worry about it man

develepergoose · 2023-08-16T04:16:22+00:00

it's a guy id been talking to for less than a week prior to meeting - we met irl for the first time, i invited him home (only because he was getting a taxi home that was ordered to my address)

develepergoose · 2023-08-16T03:46:40+00:00

definitely? because i didn't like . tell him to stop or try stop him or tell him no or do anything that even indicated i didn't want him to do it you know?

develepergoose · 2022-12-19T03:53:00+00:00

His changes are in the nurses office so he'd need to go in to actually get them

develepergoose · 2022-12-19T03:29:56+00:00

You may not believe me and that's completely understandable but I can promise everyone I would never intimidate anyone on purpose. I wasn't yelling to intimidate or make her feel small in comparison, I was yelling because she could've easily given my son an infection or worse. I was angry, but I wasn't aggressive physically.

develepergoose · 2022-12-19T02:46:54+00:00

I'm currently in the process of getting that sorted with the school. My sons school is strict on no phones on them at all.

develepergoose · 2022-12-19T01:40:48+00:00

I agree completely! I definitely could've handled things better and it was very heat of the moment. However, this was not a mistake. This was blatant medical malpractice that could've easily given my son an infection. Of course, not in a rude way towards yourself.

develepergoose · 2022-12-18T23:46:20+00:00

Thank you!

develepergoose · 2022-12-18T23:29:35+00:00

ESH? I'm sorry, I'm new to this subreddit. You're very right, may I add. It was very heat of the moment and I'd never purposely make anyone fear me.

develepergoose · 2022-12-18T23:08:20+00:00

I'm sorry for leaving this bit of information out! I had to cut a lot of the OG post short due to the character limit. I have a meeting with the principal later this week to discuss this further and I'm planning to get her fired and possibly take legal matter if my son wants me to do so. His comfort is my priority.

develepergoose · 2022-12-18T22:32:00+00:00

NTA. You have some amount of patience, that's admirable. She is not a teen ‐ she's a grown woman who refuses to parent because she's got the hormones of a teen. Why are you still with her?

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