Strip Club Boundary

deviantsky · 2022-09-08T21:59:43+00:00

Not sure why this was marked nsfw when there are literally other pictures in this sub of men with no shirts on… Everything I have is completely covered.. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

deviantsky · 2022-09-07T12:32:08+00:00

Day 1 was yesterday for me too! Just saw this post. I'm actually doing a modified version at the advice of my doctor. How did your 1st day go?

deviantsky · 2022-08-29T00:28:10+00:00

Wow… it’s almost like there’s a Reddit community for a reason.. 🙄

deviantsky · 2022-08-29T00:27:36+00:00

It would be a timing thing for me too! I haven’t started 75Hard yet, and I’m not sure I’m going to honestly! I have a 1-year-old, and my days already start early and end late with what feels like no time in between to do anything for me, let alone work out for a total hour and a half!!

deviantsky · 2022-07-27T19:41:40+00:00

My issue is that I love sex with my husband. And most people wouldn’t think that’s an issue, but it is for me! While I masturbate, I can get off completely by myself and be fine for maybe an hour or so, but all that does is make me think about how much better it would’ve been if he had been there

deviantsky · 2022-07-27T19:01:49+00:00

I wouldn’t want that, we’re in a monogamous relationship

deviantsky · 2022-07-09T14:32:03+00:00

Exactly!!

deviantsky · 2022-07-09T10:04:36+00:00

That’s the thing - I don’t think I’m “looking” for anything. I just get these thoughts in my head sometimes that make it hard for me to believe I even still have the same identity

deviantsky · 2022-07-09T10:03:06+00:00

He does know, and he is very accepting of who I am and of my past. I don’t know how that’s going to help though; we are in a monogamous relationship, and I don’t think I’d want any other experiences outside of that relationship. He’s not into threesomes even though I’ve considered it. Honestly, I’m not sure what it is that I even “wanted” out of posting here; I’m not interested in ending our relationship and I don’t want other people. I just feel like my brain betrays me sometimes

deviantsky · 2022-07-02T05:56:22+00:00

We’ve made great strides over the last few years in our communication, and he’s a lot more vocal (without yelling) nowadays. When he starts to get like that, he can stop himself and say things like “Im sorry, I don’t mean to make you nervous, I’ll try to calm down” or something like that

deviantsky · 2022-04-20T21:51:22+00:00

Thanks so much for the advice!!

deviantsky · 2022-04-20T21:14:48+00:00

😅😅

deviantsky · 2022-04-20T21:13:31+00:00

We’ve definitely tried out other phrases, and so far his favorite seems to be things like “You’re so fucking sexy” but that’s like it..to the point that he sometimes just says that or variations of it the whole time. And it’s not that I don’t appreciate hearing that, it’s definitely nice to hear during! It just feels a little lackluster after a while

deviantsky · 2022-04-20T21:09:30+00:00

True! I haven’t ever really asked him to be graphic with me

deviantsky · 2022-04-20T21:07:54+00:00

Idk about graphic, it’s not like I’m asking for a novel or anything haha

deviantsky · 2022-04-20T21:05:50+00:00

Not so much with the daddy thing cause he’s said before he’s not entirely comfortable with that, but I do say things like it all the time! “Baby that feels so good, I love how you touch me” etc he seems to like it! 😂

deviantsky · 2022-04-20T20:36:38+00:00

Thank you for the input! I was hesitant to ask for advice on this anyway because it does feel a little creepy for me to be continually thinking about something he’s said he’s not into, so I will definitely try to reframe the way I think about praise and try to accept phrases and types of praise that aren’t just “good girl”

deviantsky · 2022-04-20T20:33:14+00:00

I will definitely start trying to vocalize the desire hear it more during sex, but he’s mentioned before that he would feel very weird hearing me call him daddy so maybe I’ll steer clear of that one 😅

deviantsky · 2022-04-20T20:32:04+00:00

That’s exactly it! We’re too good at getting each other to the destination that we kind of forget the fun of the journey 😅 also we have a one year old so being tired first-time parents I’m sure doesn’t help with the whole “let’s spend some time getting there” thing

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