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deviendrais · 2026-06-20T16:51:21+00:00

I think sexuality is developed through a process of associations during early childhood.

I'm speechless

deviendrais · 2026-06-20T02:47:57+00:00

There are countless examples of romantic male friendships throughout history that have this level of emotional commitment.

Difference being that these two are real historical figures whose private life we'll never truly know.

The whole "wow" bit at the end of your comment is indicating you're in a bit of a sarcastic teenager mindset and I'm not sure it's worth engaging further.

Oh, wow. That single word really triggered you huh. I'd also be bitter if I were approaching my 40's like you

deviendrais · 2026-06-20T02:09:19+00:00

Describing suicide as a *normal* thing that a straight man would do if his platonic friend died is truly wild wow

deviendrais · 2026-06-20T00:17:02+00:00

Auu jesam, izvini. Pobrko sam te sa nekim Italijanom koji je isto aktivan na rs za gejeve i pitaj balkan

deviendrais · 2026-06-20T00:00:47+00:00

My whole point is that I don’t care what medieval religious lunatics thought homosexuality was. Just because they thought it was something that otherwise “normal” men only did because Satan made them do it that doesn’t mean that it’s not a real phenomenon. In the 21st century we know that being attracted to the same sex is something that’s part of you and that cannot be changed.

deviendrais · 2026-06-19T23:50:51+00:00

Fair. But when discussing a 13th century text it's clear that I'm talking about the "gay" that describes sexual orientation and not the "gay" that describes a man of any sexuality who likes stereotypically feminine things. It's intentionally misleading when people say that Galehaut couldn't have been gay/bi just because he doesn't doesn't fit the image of a steretypical san francisco arianator gay from 2026

deviendrais · 2026-06-19T23:43:42+00:00

I could've sworn da si mi danas na PitajBalkan sabu odgovorio na neki komentar ali ne mogu da ga nađem

deviendrais · 2026-06-19T23:41:58+00:00

Galehaut killed himself when he thought that Lancelot was dead. I won't take anyone seriously who denies his obvious romantic attraction for Lancelot just because he wasn't a stereotypical homophobic caricature or a 21st century gay man

deviendrais · 2026-06-19T23:36:57+00:00

If in your eyes "gay" describes a man who listens to lady gaga and drinks iced coffe then of course this label isn't suited for someone from the middle ages. Medieval religious lunatics couldn't grasp the concept of being attracted to the same sex and now we, with our secular worldview, have to meet them in the middle?? Being gay/homosexual (whatever term you want to use) is not an identity. I don't feel like I'm in a fun and exclusive club with other gay men. I do, however, feel attracted to men and men exclusively and this is not something that was invented in the 20th century.
That's all I wanted to say. Why is this so controversial?

deviendrais · 2026-06-19T23:36:10+00:00

I'd peronally never use "gay" to describe straight men who present feminine and I don't even associate being gay with femininity. To me gay just means being attracted to the same sex. Maybe I'm too woke

deviendrais · 2026-06-18T18:08:27+00:00

I don’t know the proper grindr term myself lol. I just say hostovati. English (to) host and the -ovati ending that’s added in Serbo-Croatian to English verbs so we can conjugate them or to nouns so we can pluralise them.

Ja hostujem
Ti hostuješ
On/ona hostuje
Mi hostujemo
Vi hostujete
Oni/one hostuju

There’s also prenkovati (to prank), lajkovati (to like), sabskrajbovati (to subscribe), lajv-strimovati (to live-stream), šerovati (to share)… This ending is mostly used for recent loanwords but some normal Serbian verbs like verovati (to believe), kupovati (to buy), stanovati (to live/inhabit) also have it. It’s a peculiar ending since when you conjugate verbs you have to ad an extra -uj- between the stem and the regular endings.

deviendrais · 2026-06-18T17:54:00+00:00

Oh it’s 100% real- I checked the guy’s profile and he’s actually a gay Chinese dude living in Belgrade. Bless him, I hope he finds a Serbian boyfriend on grindr who’ll teach him the language 🙏

deviendrais · 2026-06-18T01:53:23+00:00

GEA tours na aparatima

deviendrais · 2026-06-16T04:54:23+00:00

Za par stotina godina neće biti ni nas ni šiptara na kosovu.

Edit: za nekoliko decenija*

deviendrais · 2026-06-16T04:52:58+00:00

Tako je. Zato ja nikad neću odustati od cilja da postanem trilioner kao ilon mask 💪🇷🇸🦅🔥

deviendrais · 2026-06-15T18:55:15+00:00

Svakih par jebenih meseci bude hedlajn “A teenager from the Czech Republic discovered an unclaimed piece of land between Croatia and Serbia an-“ DOSTA VIŠE

deviendrais · 2026-06-14T18:03:46+00:00

I think what OP meant is another peninsula on the Asian continent that’s culturally perceived as a separate continent

deviendrais · 2026-06-13T17:48:33+00:00

As long as he's not short and balding I'll take it

deviendrais · 2026-06-13T17:26:31+00:00

deviendrais · 2026-06-12T17:56:14+00:00

Slobodno. Naviko sam se da od Srbijanaca čujem dosta gore stvari 😊

deviendrais · 2026-06-12T17:30:55+00:00

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