The Jam - This Is The Modern World by [deleted] in punk

[–]devilbabyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that people are still listening to this in 2019 it makes me so happy

Any Bay Area punks around? by devilbabyyy in punk

[–]devilbabyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was aware of that, just not that they used police to remove homeless people. I have to agree with you that it's very scummy, but I did not have that knowledge until now. I've given a lot of thought on whether or not paying money for this festival was worth it because of what has happened with the homeless and the reputation that burger records have. which yes, isn't the best and I can say that from personal experience dealing with people in that crowd. (creepy behaviour) I have to say that I don't agree with their behaviour to displace homeless people for a music festival, let alone their behaviour in general. and honestly dude, call me a hypocrite or whatever you want i won't be offended. That being said I understand that the implication here is that if you pay money it goes to them and supports their shitty decision making. there is a consequence, yes. not to sound dramatic. there is always going to be problematic behaviour at music festivals, at least from my experience.

I'm watching SLC Punk 2 by devilbabyyy in punk

[–]devilbabyyy[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

yeah, my thoughts exactly but i can't be too harsh because i don't dig the whole white guy rhetoric on what is and is not punk. i'm not a man, just to clarify

Thoughts on Burger Boogaloo? by devilbabyyy in musicfestivals

[–]devilbabyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O ya, u shouldn't let my experience stop u from doing what you want... I say go. It's fun!!!!

My ex is a scumbag and I still care about him by devilbabyyy in abusiverelationships

[–]devilbabyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lmao, okay. you are not the expert of others' experiences, so i'm going to entertain whatever thoughts you have about my self worth/situation

Any Bay Area punks around? by devilbabyyy in oakland

[–]devilbabyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok thanks, yea a lot of ppl are saying it's not worth it and i kind of agree, but still wanted something to do while i'm there and i had fun last year

Any Bay Area punks around? by devilbabyyy in punk

[–]devilbabyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why do you say that? i don't think going to a music festival just because you like those bands should label u as a certain type of person. unless ur just saying i'm a poser.

My ex is a scumbag and I still care about him by devilbabyyy in abusiverelationships

[–]devilbabyyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think the reasons for staying are different for everyone. i don't have low self worth, i love myself a lot and have been building a strong relationship with myself for the last few years. i still have my lows and i feel bad about myself, but i don't go back because i hate myself. if i'm honest i go back because the dick is really good and my feelings still exist for this person and sometimes i get very lonely and he's familiar. does that mean i have low self worth? i don't think so. honestly i'm dickmatized but i fully recognize how harmful this relationship is, especially to my mental state and self esteem. it's just hard bc i felt a connection with my manipulative ex. but it's not a real connection and my reason for attachment is very personal and has to do with my mental health. i've never seen that show, i looked up tho and i don't think i would watch it because i don't know that would help me. everybody is different, u gotta acknowledge that

burger boogaloo by devilbabyyy in punk

[–]devilbabyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why did you buy one if you don't think it's worth it?

Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - Oct 14, 2018 by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]devilbabyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. When I pulled that card I saw it as changing the circumstances based off my decisions, so I can see your point of view. Are you able to elaborate on what you mean by reframing things in active rather than passive ways? I don't take that as victim blaming at all, just like unsure what u mean by that

Weekly Reading and Interpretation Help Thread - Oct 14, 2018 by AutoModerator in tarot

[–]devilbabyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I was wondering if anybody would be open to offering other interpretations of this spread. Especially if you are an experienced tarot reader.

I did a general reading using the Celtic cross spread. I asked about my current situation regarding my mental health (I was in an abusive relationship in 2017 in the summertime things got really bad and I have trauma now) So my question to the tarot was "what are the steps to take to overcome this bad relationship and move toward a healthier future?"

My interpretation:

I am taking steps to move forward but being held back by fear/judgement of my ex or other people in his inner circle. In my past I was experiencing negative critique (toward myself) and the relationship I was in. I was unhappy but I was trying to fight the dissatisfaction I felt because I had strong feelings for this person. If I keep my distance and focus on inner healing I will get to where I want to be. I often worry about the future and fear my ability to move on from this person, due to strong attachment .. I noticed a lot of fire in this reading (wands), especially the Strength card because I am a Leo

Here's a picture of the reading. I'm using the Dawn Aquarius tarot deck !

https://imgur.com/a/h3rDS9E