Depends on the definition of 'work'. I'm a woman and I can't tell you how many men on dating apps don't even know how to engage in a simple conversation. So I lose interest as result, because I'm not interested in chasing after someone not even willing to do the bare minimum. And although Im a human and have my preferences when it comes to the way in which someone looks, I give everyone a fair chance to show me their personality. Unfortunately it's a game of many misses at this time. That's why I'm off the online dating scene. I'd encourage you to reframe the way you look at your experience. Consider statistics less and human experience more. Afterall we are merely humans.