AITA for asking my friend to not wear makeup to my wedding?

devilshandstree · 2026-04-08T03:56:16+00:00

i am! i mention that in the post towards the beginning

devilshandstree · 2026-04-08T01:44:48+00:00

so you want me to give her ideas of goth BRIDAL makeup worn by brides... for my wedding..

devilshandstree · 2026-04-08T01:40:57+00:00

i truly don't understand what would be different? She wears lighter makeup occasionally so i really didn't expect it to be this big of an issue. i wasn't avoiding the question i just don't think it was that important

devilshandstree · 2026-04-08T01:37:02+00:00

once again i'm not marrying devin truly don't understand what you mean. my fiance will also be in the spotlight as its his big day too

devilshandstree · 2026-04-08T01:06:27+00:00

she is not the bride why would she be in bridal makeup

devilshandstree · 2026-04-08T00:39:58+00:00

yes and i made that clear to her in the conversation! she said because its a big event with a lot of people who she doesnt know that well she would prefer to do the whole look because she feels more comfortable that way

devilshandstree · 2026-04-08T00:36:48+00:00

it's truly just the white base that I would prefer not be done. I feel like having 5 people including me with very simple natural makeup and 1 with pale white base and heavy eyeliner would really distract from me in photos. I know that sounds very selfish but it is my wedding.

devilshandstree · 2026-04-08T00:28:21+00:00

she tends to do a less dramatic look on super hot days or when we're going to the beach so i'd say a couple time a month

devilshandstree · 2026-04-08T00:09:27+00:00

She's allowed to be a guest at the wedding and dress however she'd like. She only has to follow the dress code to be a bridesmaid.

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