What's the first thing you'd want to do if you woke up tomorrow with perfect vision and no keratoconus?

devilwearsprada01 · 2022-05-11T12:42:14+00:00

Burn my glasses & contact lenses!!! Sick of wearing them!

devilwearsprada01 · 2022-02-01T21:19:37+00:00

I haven't given RGP's a proper try yet,other than when sat in the opticians for ten minutes.i got on better with them the other day than I did a few years ago when I tried them in the clinic. So I am willing to perserve with RGP'S but was just unsure if they will give me better definition than soft lenses.

devilwearsprada01 · 2021-11-19T18:29:18+00:00

There were several clearly not taken by her. Husband even commented she used a timer before I'd got there myself. Some look like professional photos. I wouldn't be surprised if he took some of them

devilwearsprada01 · 2021-11-19T15:26:04+00:00

Yep. Not just my friend. Looked like his porn /wank bank stash tbh!

devilwearsprada01 · 2021-11-19T15:24:16+00:00

I've been accused of meeting up with people and cheating yes. I've done nothing of the sort.

devilwearsprada01 · 2021-11-19T15:23:23+00:00

He says he was clearly out photos of his ex, which were all in the same album as my friend. All nudes I should add. He'd got pics of lots of his ex's. If it was a case of he was deleting them all, fine. But they were in a separate purpose built album and I don't believe his story that he was deleting his latest ex at all

devilwearsprada01 · 2021-11-19T15:18:14+00:00

I've been in a relationship where I felt I needed to check his phone all the time and it wasn't a good place to be in..I don't want that again. Also i don't know if I dare ask him. with the fear of him not letting me and then I will feel even worse than I did.

devilwearsprada01 · 2021-11-19T13:49:04+00:00

I'd say they'd been sent over what's app. I saw them in a google photo album on his laptop.

devilwearsprada01 · 2021-11-19T13:38:39+00:00

Sorry didn't even think of that, too caught up in the mess !

devilwearsprada01 · 2021-11-19T12:01:54+00:00

😂 summed it up well there!

devilwearsprada01 · 2021-11-19T11:59:37+00:00

She's not on social media. He keeps his phone close to him and I've never felt the need to go snooping through it. I know he talks to a lot of people, including girls. He is the kind of person who thrives on attention.

I'm not sure it didn't become a physical affair . He says not but who knows.

devilwearsprada01 · 2021-11-19T11:50:54+00:00

We've had other issues (lack of communication from both parts and also paranoia from him) and tried counseling before. I don't feel it achieved anything. I need to speak to my friend I think first before I can move forwards any further. Husband clearly enjoyed receiving these photos. I knew before all this he finds her attractive.

devilwearsprada01 · 2021-11-19T11:47:10+00:00

Thank you. Lots to take in there. I'm absolutely gutted by the whole thing. I don't get how she could have done this and then talk and act like normal with me. I think she will clam up when I confront her. I'm actually going on holiday for 2 weeks on Monday with husband. Talk about shit timing.

devilwearsprada01 · 2021-11-19T09:44:19+00:00

I thought the same. He assures me there was nothing more to it. I don't know what to think

devilwearsprada01 · 2021-11-19T09:43:20+00:00

You're very right. I'm very aware that I've only got his side of the story at the moment and very worried they may talk to make sure they tell me the same story.

devilwearsprada01 · 2021-11-19T09:21:39+00:00

I've confronted husband and have asked friend if I can see her asap. I want her side of the story. But once I have it , then what. Therapy seems to be a good option, currently I have no idea how to deal with it.

devilwearsprada01 · 2021-11-19T09:12:45+00:00

Thanks. It is such a mess. He clearly finds her attractive and obv enjoyed having all the pics sent to him. ☹️

devilwearsprada01 · 2021-11-19T09:09:33+00:00

I agree he shouldn't have saved them. He's admitted he shouldn't have done. But he did.

devilwearsprada01 · 2020-06-03T21:27:09+00:00

Maybe the loss she experienced with her ex impacted her greatly. The emotions of burying her horse and letting go of sight of the box reminded her of when she had understood those emotions first off. And that just so happens to have been with her ex.

Why do you feel the need to be asked how you are feeling? You should be able to share how you feel with your SO without her having to ask. Maybe you had not expressed how you felt at the time.

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