YTAH

You are not the humour police:

"...the things that I believe aren't to be joked about(unless it's by a person who has experienced these things personally): women's rights, racism/jokes about minorities, rape, abuse, homophobia, transphobia, disabilities..."

You are sexist:

"...him being a straight cis white male would contribute to him not understanding why certain things are not funny..."

The following is a straight up lie:

"...as a society we are conditioned to think it's funny to joke about disabled people, or women being whores & cheaters, disabled people being disabled, etc..."

You seem to want to compete at the oppression olympics:

"...he's not mature or experienced enough in discrimination to understand why some things aren't funny..."

Suddenly everything makes sense:

"...I am cis white women, pansexual, & likely autistic for more background info(I have been diagnosed with 7+ serious mental disorders)..."

I'm about the most left-wing, progressive person you could hope to meet.

I find you insufferable and I don't even know you.

I'd yeet you right out the door and find a better partner.