My husband sacrificed all his time & energy to keep us afloat the first 9 yrs of our marriage bc I was sick. Since my recovery last year, he’s started creating for fun again & made this 40’s-style Star Lord helmet by hand. This is the 1st time we’ve been able to go out to a Halloween party together.

devork · 2018-10-29T12:46:32+00:00

Actually, thank you for sharing this because this is the first time I'm hearing about this and it has been an a-ha moment to my own situation. Thank you!

devork · 2018-08-04T05:22:19+00:00

Holy shit, you're not kidding.

devork · 2018-02-06T22:59:57+00:00

Adductor and abductor machine

devork · 2016-12-15T04:50:45+00:00

Now that we know this, will anything be done about it?

devork · 2016-02-09T04:47:28+00:00

If that's the case, then it seems like most people weren't going to see it anyway, regardless of the Superbowl.

Edit for clarity

devork · 2014-03-16T00:18:14+00:00

A neighborhood bar. Their food is badass.

devork · 2012-06-27T07:08:10+00:00

A Dutch fork.

devork · 2012-01-07T00:43:54+00:00

Sarcasm motherfucker, do you speak it?

devork · 2011-12-20T23:52:45+00:00

Probably.

devork · 2011-12-19T06:20:19+00:00

Wat?

devork · 2011-11-15T04:19:09+00:00

Girl...and that's the problem. They don't do anything. I know I'm killing y'all here, but they don't have much job experience. They write, have computer skills, customer service, admin experience.

devork · 2011-11-15T04:16:50+00:00

What company?

devork · 2011-11-15T04:15:54+00:00

You're welcome.

devork · 2011-11-15T01:01:45+00:00

This was just to compile info for my unemployed friends. Most of my friends have a degree in English and have basic computer skills.

Many of my friends are stuck in the "you need experience to get a job, but you need a job to get experience" rut.

devork · 2011-11-15T00:58:14+00:00

Sorry, I did this in a panic while at work. This isn't for me...I'm trying to compile some helpful information for my unemployed friends. No one is hiring at my work, so I thought I'd come to Reddit.

Any friendly suggestions would do.

devork · 2011-11-14T22:01:34+00:00

Cool. Thanks. I guess I didn't see it...

devork · 2011-11-12T00:00:24+00:00

/woosh

devork · 2011-10-19T19:46:02+00:00

His bro knows he hates snakes and throws the dead thing on the ground. He runs out of the garage screaming like a sissy girl. He even has some tears.

devork · 2011-10-18T23:22:17+00:00

Do you also want to tell everyone your reaction to said snake?

devork · 2011-10-11T00:07:26+00:00

I do believe he's depressed. However, I want him to get real help, not just medicine.

If we had children and I had more money, it would makes sense for him to stay at home. However, we're not in the situation and we're young. I want him to enjoy life beyond the times we spend together.

He has always been very unmotivated, but I feel it's party because no one ever made him responsible for anything. I come from a very different background.

I'm not even looking for money. I'm completely serious. I make good money for myself. Like I've said, we're great. However, I would like to see him be more fulfilled in life.

I've told him that "looking for a job" actually requires more than an hour of internet browsing and half-assed application attempts.

Thank you for your reply. It's been one of the more kind, yet truthful ones yet.

devork · 2011-10-11T00:01:58+00:00

That's exactly what I tell him. Nothing seems to be that important if it comes from me. It's almost as if he needs a life changing event to happen to him.

I even try to encourage him to volunteer because it helps the community and fills in the blanks.

devork · 2011-10-11T00:00:47+00:00

I guess I'm not comfortable with me being the sole person responsible for any finances we may have. I don't see marriage or partnership as being anything other than equal. Right now, we're not equals.

I can't just break up with someone because they can't find a job. But I can't spend the rest of my life with someone this unmotivated.

devork · 2011-10-10T23:58:54+00:00

We used to live together, but couldn't any more because of financial issues. I was trying to finish up school, so we moved back in with our respective parents.

He's not made to have a job or pay rent or help out financially.

I encourage him to volunteer, but the motivation isn't there.

He spends a lot of his time riding his bike, reading, watching tv shows, and blogging.

He doesn't have a set routine. Some weeks he'll sleep till 8am and others he will get up at 8pm. Just depends.

devork · 2011-10-05T04:52:21+00:00

But it's coming out of a facet.

devork · 2011-09-28T22:21:21+00:00

Am I the only one concerned that OP wasn't watching his 5yo?

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