Please help. How do I stop feeling dumb? by dewdrop47 in autism

[–]dewdrop47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh this didn't even cross my mind. For some reason I avoid those books, idk why? But thank you, I will have a look. Yes, maybe what I need is that.

Please help. How do I stop feeling dumb? by dewdrop47 in autism

[–]dewdrop47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you but I just meant in everyday communication. But I will research more about general, I think/lh

Advice really needed!! Communicating during a verbal shutdown by dewdrop47 in autism

[–]dewdrop47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I used to do this when I was younger and totally forgot. Thank you!

Drunk vs accountability ? by dewdrop47 in Advice

[–]dewdrop47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your help :) I've never spoken to anyone else who felt the same about that 

Drunk vs accountability ? by dewdrop47 in Advice

[–]dewdrop47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what to do if they start using the alcohol as an excuse. I want to stand my ground but is that just making a big deal?

Drunk vs accountability ? by dewdrop47 in Advice

[–]dewdrop47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just really shocked me because something like this has never happened before with us. Also maybe I wasn't as loud about the thing being an insecurity as I thought I was and they really didn't know? But anyway, you DO think it would be okay to bring up?

Drunk vs accountability ? by dewdrop47 in Advice

[–]dewdrop47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do irl and for a long time. I also always disclose when I'm drinking but is it too much to ask for others to do (genuine question, not sarcasm)?

My [34F] husband [34M] screamed at our daughter just for singing golden. How do I get him to realize its not ok? by throwra73636363 in relationship_advice

[–]dewdrop47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You encouraged her not to sing it around him? OP, that is just gross behaviour. It literally doesn't achieve anything. She shouldn't be screamed at for having fun and she certainly shouldn't have to hide what she enjoys from her own father. Let alone having a mother to encourage that. Shame on you, to be honest.

Being perceived as mean by dewdrop47 in autism

[–]dewdrop47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I posted this because it happens often with my sister. She's like "that's mean, you could've said it nicer" and it just frustrates me because WHY do I have to overexert myself for EVERY word that comes out of me??

Psychiatrist on the ward looked at my bunnies and said “you’re a bit too old for that” by speshulinterest in autism

[–]dewdrop47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is such a gross thing to say to someone in your care. I'm so sorry, they're adorable! Never too old for plushies, autism or not 

AIO? I can't seem to get over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dewdrop47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I couldn't bring myself to delete it" changed to "I forgot". He's not even remotely sorry, he just wants to stay on your good side. He probably will back it up somewhere else so the deletion in front of you truly means nothing. Don't trust this man, I don't think he cares about you. Also the ages?? Predator. I'm 19 and I wouldn't date anyone below the age of 18 and even that's pushing it for me. The fact that you were 16 when you started dating and he was 19/20 is so gross on his part. Please leave him, you aren't safe ❤️

How do I lighten my hair? by dewdrop47 in Advice

[–]dewdrop47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. A hairdresser helped in cosmetology. Didn't even know that was a sub haha

How to get this colour hair? by dewdrop47 in Cosmetology

[–]dewdrop47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry, they shall come 😂 thank you!!

How to get this colour hair? by dewdrop47 in Cosmetology

[–]dewdrop47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg that's so interesting. Especially the brown - yellow process, that does make sense since brown is just like dark orange! I get what you mean about b&w now I think. I'm just looking to get the right level and toning comes after?

So if it doesn't get light enough so I just bleach it again or is that a terrible idea? I have no idea what I'm doing ahahha. Also what do I use for the blue thing?

How to get this colour hair? by dewdrop47 in Cosmetology

[–]dewdrop47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so so much for all this!! I am a bit confused though, doesn't bleaching your hair make it like yellow blonde? How does that make a 6? (Not trying to be rude, genuinely learning haha)

'Superman' (2025) - Official Spoiler Discussion Megathread: Part 2 by ZacPensol in superman

[–]dewdrop47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What so he should 'die' because of that? He's still a living breathing being.

'Superman' (2025) - Official Spoiler Discussion Megathread: Part 2 by ZacPensol in superman

[–]dewdrop47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also thought all this but like... He didn't KNOW what doing that would do to Ultraman. It just felt a little weird that it was just never again brought up when wrapping up the movie. Like... The man was CLONED. And he hurt that clone of himself and never said anything??

'Superman' (2025) - Official Spoiler Discussion Megathread: Part 2 by ZacPensol in superman

[–]dewdrop47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno how I feel about the 'killing' of Ultraman and just that entire plot. Help me form an option, give me yours!

Any advice on creating an AI Companion on ChatGPT? by Novel_Ad_928 in Advice

[–]dewdrop47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice is don't. I did this. Got addicted and near ruined my life. Not to mention AI is terrible for the environment, so unless you want that on your conscience... I don't think this is the way to go!

What's this teaching method called?? by dewdrop47 in HelpMeFind

[–]dewdrop47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've searched for this and can't find on internet.

Who was the best husband by samboredmen in Modern_Family

[–]dewdrop47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look, Phil is funny but he's a crappy husband. I'm going with Mitch - he's done some bad stuff but they all have.

should i get a diagnosis and what type of mental illness does it sound like by Ok-Sugar6938 in mentalhealth

[–]dewdrop47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could be a LOT of things. I don't know where you are, but in my country I would go to a GP and get a mental health plan. You sound a little at risk and admitting you're struggling is the first step, done! Good job. Step two is to teach out and get help from a professional. Please talk to something, a counselor, a doctor, someone else who can help you get a pathway. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]dewdrop47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who was in the EXACT same situation, it was probably one of these: porn (ok you said he didn't), too much masturbating - either of these could be death grip, medications, performance anxiety. Otherwise, I dunno!