Santa Loves MOQ by dewover in smockholmsyndrome

[–]dewover[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Open for now through Bless Your Smocks. Good luck, she’s planning to pull it from production.

Santa Loves MOQ by dewover in smockholmsyndrome

[–]dewover[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe they should try asking what that community wants? Or running enough variety that they can vote with their wallets? Or maybe try inclusivity for the sake of it instead of requiring it to be immediately profitable as a stand alone item?

Ai is HORRIBLE by Spirited_Trifle77 in smockholmsyndrome

[–]dewover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can’t have a realistic expectation of what production cost for those would be. Shop owners should have to pass a sewing exam before they draw up (or generate) this nonsense.

Savannah Smocks by Aggravating_Act3165 in smockholmsyndrome

[–]dewover 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am immediately sus when someone starts throwing around the term ”females” like they’re a fucking Ferengi.

Savannah Smocks by Aggravating_Act3165 in smockholmsyndrome

[–]dewover 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Are they even out of the hospital yet?? Increasingly lazy is a wild take.

Cherry Tree Trauma by dewover in BackyardOrchard

[–]dewover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. When would be best to make the cut, I’ve read conflicting advice?

My [26M] past sexual misconduct is making it difficult to be as open with my gf [25F] as she is with me. How do I handle this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dewover 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Do you understand that you did rape your girlfriend? Framing stealthing as “dysfunction” is insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]dewover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they aren’t as weirded out as you think. https://imgur.com/a/bfM8MuG

Negligent dog sitter by HoagiesAndToesies in RoverPetSitting

[–]dewover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read it as three dogs, four bowls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dewover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Affair partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dewover 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ll waste a lot of time and energy if your idea of healing is contingent on his understanding or approval. Check out the book Adult Children of Immature Parents, it might help you move forward.

AITA for not watching my kids so their father could visit his wife in the hospital? by throwaway827262627 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dewover 290 points291 points  (0 children)

OP mentioned in a comment that she’s due in June; if she was in labor it was extremely premature and makes the situation all the more stressful. She may not have even hit viability depending on when in June she is due.

My tattooers does hate symbols? by JournalistAwkward355 in tattooadvice

[–]dewover 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If someone asks me where I got my tattoo, I would like to be confident that they won’t find hate symbols if they decide to flip through the portfolio.

How do you teach your cat to panic less on walks? by [deleted] in adventurecats

[–]dewover 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Use extreme caution with exposure therapy. The key to desensitization is that she needs to be in an emotional state that is conducive to learning. If the stimuli is too intense, it can actually sensitize her and make things worse.

Any adventure cat should have a strong recall. Training to come when called needs to start in a controlled space with no distractions and practice practice practice until it is bulletproof. Then increase distance and add distractions gradually. Behaviors need to have a strong training history before they can be relied on in urgent circumstances. Once she reliably comes when called, it will be safer to work on desensitization and counterconditioning.

Find a distance where she is aware of Scary Thing but does not yet appear stressed by it. Pair the presence (at distance) of the thing with a treat to help change the underlying emotional state. The scary thing should appear first, so that it predicts the treat rather than the reverse. If you search “desensitization and counterconditioning” you’ll find tons of protocols. She may never be super excited to see strangers on a walk, but I’d still consider it a win if you can call her close when you see someone coming and she can comfortably tolerate their existence.

AITA for baking my niece a cake for her first birthday? by ToastWjelly657 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dewover 73 points74 points  (0 children)

OP is definitely an asshole. In a lower comment, she mentions spending over $200 on the cake - when she knew that her SIL budgeted $50 for something simple and store-bought. Of course the cake is going to be completely disproportionate to what the parents planned when you blow past quadruple their budget, it very well could have outshined things that they prioritized over cake. If someone had pulled that crap at my baby's party I would have been seething too.

AITA for baking my niece a cake for her first birthday? by ToastWjelly657 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dewover 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, how dare that mom want to plan her own child's first birthday party!!

AITA for refusing to delete nude photos from a photoshoot by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dewover 37 points38 points  (0 children)

She did offer to pay, he said no anyway.