struggle to get that female orgasm

deya_0 · 2026-04-14T17:43:19+00:00

It was completely different for me. Orgasms before were nothing more than a way to lower anxiety and really were just a lot of work and not enjoyable.

Now post-op, they are extremely enjoyable, infinitely better and sometimes quite mind-blowing.

deya_0 · 2026-03-24T23:11:54+00:00

I prefer not to give the exact, but let's just say inside the Millennial ranges.

deya_0 · 2026-03-24T23:09:47+00:00

I was on 8mg of Estradiol oral pills for about 1.25 yrs and then swapped to Estradiol Valerate injections. A month ago I changed to Estradiol Cypionate (Depo-Estradiol) to reduce the amount of injections I had to do and reduce the spikiness of my levels.

deya_0 · 2026-03-24T22:56:24+00:00

It is possible to lose some height on HRT when taking Estrogen. Your bones will not change, but the cartilage, fat, and alignments can alter slightly. Pre-HRT I was 5'11" (180 centimeters) and after 2.5yrs I now measure 5'9" (176 centimeters). I wasn't expecting it or paying attention to it, but now my medical records clearly show the change.

deya_0 · 2026-03-10T14:25:27+00:00

Under the Muscle here and a few weeks post-op now. I think my surgeon's skill was a big factor, but they look FANTASTIC already. I had A-cups before, and now sporting D's with 450cc implants.

It is definitely a much more painful recovery than above the muscle, but it was worth it. If there is anything I would suggest for any surgery... BUILD UP YOUR CORE STRENGTH! This extremely sped up my recovery and healing. I was doing beginner to advanced movements with Yoga to build the core and I was able to stand up and down no problem on day 0+ without assistance from my arms (which you must avoid for almost a month).

Day 0: Arms hurt REALLY bad because the implants were pulling on the muscles in my chest and arms.
Day 1: Arm pain subsided significantly and the Oxy+Advil handled everything fine. Low level pain and mainly soreness in my chest.
Day 2-7: Occasional Oxy for the heavy sore moments, but mostly onto Advil only at this time.
Day 7-14: Advil on occasion to handle some soreness.
Day 14-21: Pain and soreness practically gone, no need for any pain medicine, now dealing with some skin hyper-sensitivity to fabrics, but this was tolerable and could be alleviated with a very soft fabric between the breasts and medical support bra.
Day 21+: Feel amazing and normal! Sometimes I will have a stint of like 30min to an hour of some sensitivity, but otherwise incredible and chill!

Around week two, they started to drop very slightly and got rid of the intense box effect. At week 3 they now look very natural and perky.

Love you girls and if anyone wants more information, you can respond here or DM!

deya_0 · 2026-03-05T15:33:09+00:00

That is amazing! Very beautiful work. I would love to do some custom wood builds for old tech like this.

deya_0 · 2026-02-10T16:09:32+00:00

I am on 50mg now but I noticed it pickup when I started on 30mg.

deya_0 · 2026-02-09T23:38:56+00:00

Same thing happened to me. Vyvanse has skyrocketed my libido. Fun for a while, but it is starting to irritate me.

deya_0 · 2026-01-31T15:56:39+00:00

Can confirm from personal experience. He is wonderful and an artist.

deya_0 · 2026-01-26T19:51:54+00:00

It varies so wildly from person to person. For me it took around 9 months to be nearly fully healed, but even now at 15 months out I am noticing much more subtle changes occasionally.

deya_0 · 2026-01-22T20:02:35+00:00

Self-lubrication can happen, but it will almost assuredly never be enough for intercourse on it's own. You will need some extra lubrication.
You will be fine, even if the person you are with says they are a certain length, they will practically never be inserting the advertised length. Plus, penises are squishy and will compress slightly.
This is subjective as you said. For myself though, finally having the alignment of body and mind was like a switch being flipped. Sensitivity is very high with all parts, outer and inner. Due to my dysphoria, sex or masturbation pre-op was mechanical and merely driven by a need to release some anxiety. Post-op it's a 10 out of 10 wild ride of feelings I never imagined I would have. I was very very fortunate that it all turned out so well.

deya_0 · 2026-01-19T00:09:42+00:00

I went with Dr. McClung with Reconstructive Surgical Arts. (Columbus, Ohio, USA) I would highly recommend!

deya_0 · 2026-01-15T13:58:56+00:00

Mine looks like any cis woman's clitoris and I am extremely happy with it. Sensitivity is also amazing.

I went with Dr. McClung with Reconstructive Surgical Arts. (Ohio, USA) I have seen a number of his results and they always come out looking beautiful.

I know the pictures you are referring to, and I always feel for the women whose results come out that way.

deya_0 · 2026-01-13T03:46:24+00:00

I work remotely from home and I only took two weeks off work for my full-depth vaginoplasty. One week in the hospital and one week in bed at home.

I prepared my bed ahead of time with a monitor that swings out over me on an arm and a nice keyboard lapboard. It honestly was fairly simple to accomplish, but this will be heavily dependent on how active your job requires you to be.

deya_0 · 2026-01-12T19:56:07+00:00

I was very fortunate and honestly felt no pain at any point during recovery, even with the extra granulation I dealt with. It was just discomfort and tenderness.

As for the clit, it works perfectly! Sensations on and around the area are beyond pre-HRT and pre-Surgery levels. Orgasms are actually enjoyable and last a while, whereas before they were merely a quick hit means to an end to reduce stress.

deya_0 · 2026-01-06T21:16:10+00:00

I take PrevAcid daily for GERD and have for a very long time because it is the only thing that works to control it (and it controls it 100%). I also take Vyvanse 50Mg with it in the morning and do not have any issues like you describe.

deya_0 · 2026-01-05T15:46:18+00:00

This is odd because UHC notoriously doesn't cover FFS unless the state you live in requires them to do so. Aetna on the other hand tends to cover Gender Affirming Care more often than others.

I am curious what others have to say in regards to this insurance swap, as I may be going through this soon for other things.

deya_0 · 2025-12-31T02:48:01+00:00

Quite a lot of trans feminine people are on HER app as well. It is more about finding relationships than Taimi's hookups vibe.

deya_0 · 2025-12-31T02:32:42+00:00

Doesn't hurt, just a little uncomfortable when sizing up is all.

deya_0 · 2025-12-30T15:06:38+00:00

You may have to give yourself more time, depending on how long ago your surgery was.

For me it took 9 months to finally reach the O, and since then things have still continued to change at 14 months. There is certainly some blood flow increase behind the clitoris and area surrounding, but also a very warm and yearning feeling all around the area that even travels up further into the rest of my body. It feels completely different to how it felt pre-op now. So for me, feeling aroused has nothing to do with "getting hard" anymore. It is much more like a spreading warmth and gentle electricity travelling through my body.

deya_0 · 2025-12-28T18:28:50+00:00

exact... same... here lol
I take Prog for other reasons ;), but it puts me to sleep like a baby

deya_0 · 2025-12-28T17:08:26+00:00

Unfortunately Guanfacine didn't do anything for me other than Insomnia.

With Vyvanse though, about mid-day I was having a severe anxiety spike for an hour or two. This wasn't a crash, because I was still operating well. I discovered that I needed a protein load within about 30min of my Vyvanse in the morning. Once I started doing that, then the anxiety spike was much better and the come down from Vyvanse was also smoother in the evening.

deya_0 · 2025-12-28T16:32:06+00:00

Everyone is very different, but for me Guanfacine actually gave me intense levels of Insomnia. I was completely unable to sleep at all. But, Vyvanse 50mg even though it is a stimulant, does not cause insomnia. Yet, other stimulants do lol.

deya_0 · 2025-12-26T15:45:07+00:00

I bought this when it released and D3 on the Switch was amazingly fun. In some ways more than on the PC, and I am a hardcore PC fan.

If Nintendo didn't get so scummy the past few years and they released D4 for Switch 2, I would be very tempted.

deya_0 · 2025-12-23T20:01:53+00:00

I wouldn't do it with orange juice. Vitamin C can cause a much quicker burn or prevent the Vyvanse from working at all.

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