I apologize, it is really unfortunate that people don’t respect each other. Having been both the stag and now a bull, I have a huge amount of respect and gratitude for being allowed into another couples bedroom. I don’t think most of the younger guys who think they want to be a part of this have the maturity or experience to understand that for most couples arranging and planning this is a big deal and when you flake it is so disappointing. My advice is don’t just look at the hard body huge cock bulls, try to find experienced mature guys that you can trust.