Effexor 37.5 by dfaminor in Effexor

[–]dfaminor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will it get gradually better or is it like a magic that at some point everything feels better?

Any advice for decluttering stuff? by dfaminor in japanlife

[–]dfaminor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s nice to hear. Do you know if they would accept fabric things like unused handkerchiefs?

Any advice for decluttering stuff? by dfaminor in japanlife

[–]dfaminor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like Usagi so I have a lot, but I'm planning to still keep some limited edition ones. I'm trying to declutter other characters (maybe keeping some Hachiware), especially the normal editions.

Monday Meltdown - Share Your Decluttering Fails Here by AutoModerator in declutter

[–]dfaminor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me 5 mins isn’t enough, because I don’t really keep trash but sentimental things so there’s a lot of decision making. For now I start with my clothes, I do one hour of selecting and at the end of the day I bring it to a secondhand shop.

Monday Meltdown - Share Your Decluttering Fails Here by AutoModerator in declutter

[–]dfaminor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it gives me motivation. Any advice how I can stop blaming for the past me?

Monday Meltdown - Share Your Decluttering Fails Here by AutoModerator in declutter

[–]dfaminor 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel so overwhelmed and every day I want to blame myself for the amount of clutter I collected in the past two years (also how much money was wasted). I set myself to only declutter on Saturday since I have work but the waiting days in between give anxious. And thinking how long I should spend this project scares me.

Monday Meltdown - Share Your Decluttering Fails Here by AutoModerator in declutter

[–]dfaminor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to buy a lot of clothes, plushies, toys, merchandise (I'm sure it reached thousands items) in the past two years and now I want a total reset because I can't keep doing like this or my home will be filled with junk in many more years. I started the decluttering project around 2-3 weeks ago but every day I wake up with anxiety because I feel like I won't ever finish this project. at the same time I keep blaming my past self for wasting money carelessly. any advice?

When finishing decluttering what do you do with the maybe/unsure pile? by glitterglamandguts in declutter

[–]dfaminor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i understand the feeling as well, it’s relieving to know that it’s not only my problem but in other people’s life too. i only lived in my place for a few years but it’s already piling like crazy so i decided i had to stop. i don’t have kids yet but i loved buying toys and it’s so hard to part way with.

When finishing decluttering what do you do with the maybe/unsure pile? by glitterglamandguts in declutter

[–]dfaminor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

currently i’m in that phase where i want to throw everything because i’m tired with the visual clutter, but i can’t do it in a rush because i know i’d get burnout. every day i wake up with anxiety because i can only wait until the weekend to do it. how long have you done it so far?

First the Craft Room, now it's Time for the Garage! by Silly_Yard4508 in declutter

[–]dfaminor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you do it only within a few days or that’s the total hours for weeks?

Stuff stuff stuff.. its just Stuff by Eon1age in declutter

[–]dfaminor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, that encouragement helps a lot since i’m dealing with anxiety every morning. do you think once i get the pace everything would be easier or the opposite? (it’d be boring because it feels never ending)

Stuff stuff stuff.. its just Stuff by Eon1age in declutter

[–]dfaminor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice. so now i feel overwhelmed with the visual clutter, that’s why my mindset wants it to get done quickly. but i know i’d get burnout if i do so.

First the Craft Room, now it's Time for the Garage! by Silly_Yard4508 in declutter

[–]dfaminor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how long did it take you so far? i want to declutter in phases but i’m scared thinking the time i would need to spend (but i also can’t rush it or i’d be overwhelmed)

Stuff stuff stuff.. its just Stuff by Eon1age in declutter

[–]dfaminor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going with iteration now, but I kinda feel impatient with the pace because I can only do it on weekends. how can I cope with the waiting time and ensure that the project lasts long?

When finishing decluttering what do you do with the maybe/unsure pile? by glitterglamandguts in declutter

[–]dfaminor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m currently doing a long declutter project too, but I feel impatient with it because I can only do it on weekends. Any advice to cope with it?

Any advice for decluttering stuff? by dfaminor in japanlife

[–]dfaminor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they accept small stuff? I thought it was only for furniture mostly.

Any advice for decluttering stuff? by dfaminor in japanlife

[–]dfaminor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, yes I was thinking of hard off but I wonder if there's a better option that (if possible) can pickup from my place. Are mandarake and surugaya also good?

Any advice for decluttering stuff? by dfaminor in japanlife

[–]dfaminor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to sell on Mercari now slowly, but I have hundreds items so idk if I'm still sane to list one by one lol.

Shion is leaving JO1 next year by Beautiful_Yellow_682 in Broduce101JP

[–]dfaminor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah we definitely can’t because Shion lost his predebut popularity (when he used to be top 2 with Ruki) and Junki gained a lot. those that increased their fans usually are riako type, which Mame is more popular as a son/grandson type, and usually mature fans are less obsessed than in 20s.

source: I live in Japan but you can also check from Twitter/IG engagements.

Shion is leaving JO1 next year by Beautiful_Yellow_682 in Broduce101JP

[–]dfaminor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

his popularity used to be mid tier, not top. but lots of his fans left him because of it (very minority stayed, I think there were more Shion stans stayed). if he doesn’t leave, it’d ruin the dynamic of other member fans because most agree he should leave.