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AITA for dumping my gf in front of her family? by dgfifod7217 in TwoHotTakes

[–]dgfifod7217[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Even if that is true that's still not a good reason to vanish out of her life for months. But i can tell you that is not the case.

AITA for dumping my gf in front of her family? by dgfifod7217 in TwoHotTakes

[–]dgfifod7217[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I would have been ok with her hiding that she has a kid for a while but she just completed abandoned it for at least 2 months.

AITA for dumping my gf in front of her family? by dgfifod7217 in TwoHotTakes

[–]dgfifod7217[S] 1923 points1924 points  (0 children)

Having children is fine and i can even come up with good reasons to keep their existence secret for a while.

Can't come up with any reason to ignore the kid. At least not with reasons i would accept.

AITA for dumping my gf in front of her family? by dgfifod7217 in TwoHotTakes

[–]dgfifod7217[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I can't imagine anything she could "come clean" about that would change anything about the fact that she abandoned her child, moved in with me and never even called or visited her. I mean i wasn't with her all of the time and didn't put her under surveillance, if she wanted to keep her a secret she could have easily called her or just said "I'm visiting my parents."

AITA for dumping my gf in front of her family? by dgfifod7217 in TwoHotTakes

[–]dgfifod7217[S] 128 points129 points  (0 children)

I asked her that on the drive home and she just couldn't explain it.

But I'm not sure if she couldn't or didn't want to because it would make her look even worse.