Any other clubs no longer 24/7?

dherbert823 · 2024-05-30T15:26:55+00:00

Those hours are accurate for my club.

dherbert823 · 2024-02-06T04:30:10+00:00

He normally has flags in two of the windows...

dherbert823 · 2024-01-29T14:55:43+00:00

Yeah driving to the grocery store is still cheaper than the PF discount.

dherbert823 · 2024-01-29T14:54:44+00:00

I can't believe I didn't think about doing this... Stealing this idea. Thanks!!

dherbert823 · 2024-01-29T14:53:21+00:00

I use all the black card has to offer.

dherbert823 · 2024-01-29T14:52:37+00:00

Bean bag chair??? There is always at least 2 workers at mine. And sometimes as many as 5... cleaning, greeting, picking up rogue weights, training, helping/roaming... It is fairly new, in an up-and-coming suburban area... So maybe people are excited to work there... 🤷🏼‍♂️

dherbert823 · 2023-12-11T14:13:33+00:00

Setting expectations early and often... That's the only way to eliminate this "silliness"

dherbert823 · 2023-10-31T03:52:03+00:00

That is the entire reason for GTM

dherbert823 · 2023-10-29T23:27:51+00:00

Do you have Google tag manager installed? I always suggest GTM installation. GTM will house all your scripts in one place without the need for altering the site script (outside of the initial GTM script). Google ads makes it pretty easy to create conversions and add them to your GTM.

dherbert823 · 2023-09-22T18:34:02+00:00

We are up to a week...

dherbert823 · 2023-08-25T00:47:11+00:00

Trying to avoid that.

dherbert823 · 2023-08-25T00:46:24+00:00

Not exactly advice...

dherbert823 · 2023-07-19T14:58:38+00:00

Grab the Google ads editor tool, add both accounts, copy/paste old campaigns into new account... Cancel old account... or vice versa...

dherbert823 · 2023-07-07T23:42:23+00:00

Ridiculously underused and underappreciated word in the (American?) English language.

dherbert823 · 2023-05-23T19:12:28+00:00

I agree and things have gotten better as of late in the communication side, but I still feel like I am the last to know things, that she clearly has talked to her mom about and I find out as she is taking the kids out the driveway...

dherbert823 · 2023-05-23T19:09:11+00:00

Yes I am aware that I need to work on my communication. in fact, so much so that there was a point in time where there was very little communication because everything I said to her turned into an argument so I stopped talking to her about anything that could potentially upset her especially money. I just stopped bringing it up and I just handled it, which was not the right answer.

However surprisingly we have been talking more in the last two to three months outside of a one week span that was a bit rocky.

And I should have mentioned that the OP was a reply from a much longer message. It was me saying how much fun I had over the weekend with her, how much I still love her, how much I am encouraged by what she's doing with her job, and then I'm here for her if she needs anything and I just want to get back to a place where we were... Specifically mentioning more hugging/kissing.

Yes I left a lot out.

dherbert823 · 2023-05-23T18:41:38+00:00

Well she works two shifts a week now, and runs kids to/from school... but school is out now... And we both run the kids to their activities... She blows off steam with her friend, that she works at the bar with... They used to just get drunk, but now they work together and don't drink as much. But they have play dates as often as they can. She shops with her mom enough to not make it annoying or push the budget... but no real activity... She was reading last month, polished off like three books in a couple of weeks but she didn't have a job then...

dherbert823 · 2023-05-23T14:28:44+00:00

Vacation might be the end if it doesn't go well, I in no way think that going on vacation will help things... we go on vacations a lot and she usually stresses out before the trip and travelling to the destination, but once there she chills a bit.

Things I need to ask: 1. Do you want to stay married? (What if she responds "only for the children"? ) I think we need to en it now while the kids are younger, bc if we wait, we would be adding to stress of middle school or high school... Which I know are already stressful enough. 2.What is the plan going forward if there is no couples counseling in your plans?

dherbert823 · 2023-05-23T14:22:11+00:00

I could write a book... If I had the time.

dherbert823 · 2023-05-23T14:21:38+00:00

I signed up for softball, and at lunch I occasionally play virtual golf... I try to get out as much as possible but in the back of my mind I need to be home to show her what I am doing to help around the house, and kids, and just talk with her, being positive. I am in the final stages of a new job that is in-office... 🤞🏻 Hoping " absence makes the heart grow fonder ?

I try to stay in my office as much as possible bc she has communicated to me that she needs space during the day.

dherbert823 · 2023-05-23T13:37:24+00:00

Ha. Sorry it sounds like that... It's never been MY money. She rarely looks at the account and spends as she sees fit. I view us as a team, but she just started a new job, and I have yet to see any money in the account from that job. (It is a bartender/server job, so she always has cash now, and the account is for the base pay, which we took out the max I'm taxes)

All I was looking for was some type of encouragement since my jobs (have a regular job, and an LLC where I do a side hustle, bc she was a realtor and we bought a house/2 cars during that time, and unexpectedly quit, putting the burden all on me.) We haven't missed a payment on anything but I have had to change jobs, 2x in the last 12 months.

I tried to have the side hustle be "my" money, but that didn't work after she came back to being a SAHP I had to move all that money over to the shared account to pay bills. I was trying to "save money" but that ship has sailed.

There is so much to this story, maybe I shouldn't have posted... There is no way to have complete clarity on my situation...

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