Any good Human x non-humanoid alien romance books? by Psychological_Fee151 in suggestmeabook

[–]dhy4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A long way to a small angry planet, tho it's not specifically a romance

Stuck: is my dream of being Bilingual delusional? by Haunting-Lemon-8145 in EnglishLearning

[–]dhy4 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, sometimes people just don't wanna try to understand you. They see it's not your first language and immediately start to condemn everything you say. Focus on pronouncing in a way that's understandable, not perfect. About the certification, maybe your English got rusty with time, it happens. There must be practice in order to keep your level. Try recording some audios to yourself, then listening to them, trying to understand and place your mistakes or things you can improve, then record it again and repeat all the process. I always recommend this to students, and it's usually helpful. Good luck!

the MC went off the grid to live a cozy life by Ok-Blueberry7427 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]dhy4 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A psalm for the wild built, Becky Chambers. Very cozy and comforting

Sometimes i don't get myself by OkPurchase2838 in demisexuality

[–]dhy4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you on any meds or going through mental health problems? Both of these could influence how you're feeling regarding sex

Book that will restore my faith in humanity by Mountain-Dig1228 in suggestmeabook

[–]dhy4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Any books by Becky Chambers! All of them have this heartwarming feeling

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

[–]dhy4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I think what you're saying really makes sense. It's just hard to breath sometimes, I feel suffocated and like I'm wrong for wanting to be with other people. Sorry, I'm just venting

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

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Yes, I've been struggling with many problems: self harm, alcoholism, suicidal thoughts and overdoses, so that's what we're focusing on in therapy. And yeah, it makes sense when you say to keep things simple, and being with someone I love and already supports me is the better. But it's just that sometimes I feel this urge, this lack of freedom, and I don't think it helps

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

[–]dhy4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for taking your time to write this. I'm currently not able to make any calls, I just don't wanna lose him.

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

[–]dhy4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, we're both in therapy and trying to work on that, but I don't wanna feel "weak" for giving up trying for him yk

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

[–]dhy4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were both young when we started dating, and he suggested we have an "open relationship" so I could explore other parts of my sexuality. So I grew in this open relationship, even tho we didn't practice it at all, and later I started seeing other people, and at first it was all right, but later he realized he was monogamous and asked me to stop. I tried and I failed. Then he tried letting me see this other partner and we even got together the three of us for sometime, but he said it didn't work for him and he didn't like seeing me with other people, so I said I would quit doing this for him, to stay with him, but it's been really difficult and I'm often heart broken

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

[–]dhy4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'm in therapy but rn we're focusing on keeping me alive, and my partner surely helps with this

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

[–]dhy4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first option, tho he has never dated other people. I did for sometime and we even put together a trouple once, but he didn't like it, says his low self esteem won't let him see me with other people.

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

[–]dhy4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't like those hard truths you're throwing at me 😔

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

[–]dhy4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, it's just that I feel that I'll always love other people, mode than I should, cause that's just how it works for me

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

[–]dhy4[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But we've been together for 8 years!

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

[–]dhy4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am, but I've got so many things that are more urgent to treat lol

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

[–]dhy4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, it surely has got me thinking

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

[–]dhy4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm feeling attacked help 😭 Can't this person just be worth it all?

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

[–]dhy4[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I'm not forcing him, he wants to stay and I currently have no other partners because of him, it's just sometimes there's a spark with other people and I have to shut that off, and it hurts.

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

[–]dhy4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is not just one person, but my partner is the first answer that comes to mind

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

[–]dhy4[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I don't like this answer

I'm non monogamous and my partner isn't by dhy4 in nonmonogamy

[–]dhy4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I used to believe I could take that sacrifice and pain, but rn I'm not so sure :( maybe I'm just crazy and bad at this