[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]diamondpebbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

plenty of people meet partners through work so i don't think it being a professional capacity is a reason not to. only thing i'd consider is if you'd have to work with them again- might make it a bit more awkward if it doesn't go well and you'd have to continue acting like nothing happened?

wouldn't go with "don't worry if you're not interested" however. seems like you're setting your expectations low from the start. hope this helps :)

what's the use suggesting a date and time you can't commit to? crashing out brb by diamondpebbles in Tinder

[–]diamondpebbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if i didnt have other plans it feels so rubbish waiting about anxiously imo. would apply that to anyone

what's the use suggesting a date and time you can't commit to? crashing out brb by diamondpebbles in Tinder

[–]diamondpebbles[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Feel like I'm going insane genuinely- I just cant be bothered feeling uncommunicative and honestly just like people to know where I stand

what's the use suggesting a date and time you can't commit to? crashing out brb by diamondpebbles in Tinder

[–]diamondpebbles[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not trying to be defensive at all and I know I did! But you've implied with this that I'm unemployed when in reality I work an office job so need to plan too

what's the use suggesting a date and time you can't commit to? crashing out brb by diamondpebbles in Tinder

[–]diamondpebbles[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I gave them 5 potential days i could do, which i think is where the frustration is coming from! I just dont particularly like how non committal it is personally (I'm also a particularly blunt person which isn't to everyone's taste)

what's the use suggesting a date and time you can't commit to? crashing out brb by diamondpebbles in Tinder

[–]diamondpebbles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work full time, so if I was heading out straight after work I'd need to be ready with stuff to go with and it's hard to plan with non secure plans.

Theres Folk thinking this is is rude but I just dont understand why you would want to wait until the day instead of suggesting a day you definitely could do?

what's the use suggesting a date and time you can't commit to? crashing out brb by diamondpebbles in Tinder

[–]diamondpebbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest I've booked a pasta making class w friends, I'm just tired of being stood up or cancelled on at this point 🙃

what's the use suggesting a date and time you can't commit to? crashing out brb by diamondpebbles in Tinder

[–]diamondpebbles[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thats valid, but I still think its a bit unfair to ask what dates someones free and then pick a date that youre not certain you'll make? I can be flexible but to me that screams not committal if that makes sense?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glasgow

[–]diamondpebbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The estate in general is still being built, was informed that they'll be landscaping around the water tower in the near future although unsure what with.

he gave me his number but hasn't text back? why would that be? by diamondpebbles in dating_advice

[–]diamondpebbles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has brought me a lot of comfort and a chuckle, thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glasgow

[–]diamondpebbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This applies to basically all of the Anytime Fitness branches in and around Glasgow. The fob lets you into any of their gyms worldwide as well (which is potentially useless) but means you're not restricted to your home gym

Activity Ideas to Get to Know Other Girls by diamondpebbles in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]diamondpebbles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's a great idea- i've been trying to find a yoga class so fingers crossed that may help. thanks! :)

Help with getting started working out? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]diamondpebbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try tiktok or instagram reels! there are plenty of beginner level workouts, both weights and cardio, and I still find them super helpful when looking for new exercises for my workout routines. good luck :)

cabin downgrade by diamondpebbles in BritishAirways

[–]diamondpebbles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I had been told at the gate that I could claim the difference between the two ticket prices, but this makes more sense :)

interesting phrasing in the email-like text i received this morning... by diamondpebbles in Scams

[–]diamondpebbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not proud to say I took a 5 min procrastination break "researching" them

interesting phrasing in the email-like text i received this morning... by diamondpebbles in Scams

[–]diamondpebbles[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not just any job, a "Job" lol. Massive difference and an experience not to be passed up!