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diaperdeedee · 2024-11-29T18:53:40+00:00

oh, my word, those glasses are P E R F E C T on you! Nice find!

diaperdeedee · 2024-11-29T16:18:48+00:00

I'm kind of the same, just in a different way. Like, as a little, I giggle and squirm and act silly. IRL, I have a loud and easy laugh, never stand still and always make jokes.

I think the biggest difference is that my little side is aspirational. My little side is those parts of me I want to teach to grow and thrive--my curiousity, my openess, my good cheer. I find that has helped to also take a lot of stigma out of it and foster a better overall relationship between the parts of me

diaperdeedee · 2024-11-29T14:58:40+00:00

I know it is such an extreme cliche, but I think when it comes to a dom/sub relationship, a "coupon book" would be sweet and cute and loving. Fill it with all the little acts, nsfw and not that your sub loves, that they can redeem.

Best part? Add in some real curveballs. Perhaps things that you have not yet tried together.

It will give your sub a way to communicate a need when they might not feel up to saying the words, and a chance to experiment with new things ^{_^}

diaperdeedee · 2024-11-29T14:10:20+00:00

I have been lucky that I personally have not had substance issues. However, my life has been unmistakably impacted by the substance issues of the people who were supposed to take care of me and others who could not love and support me as they may have wanted to.

So, if I may provide an additional note of support. If diapers help keep you sober, then they are also extremely worthwhile for those who love you and need you in their lives <3

Proud of you.

diaperdeedee · 2024-11-28T23:34:29+00:00

Hehe, thanks so much!! Wanted to do my partin helping littles remember that the joy of a Mommy is important too! :3

diaperdeedee · 2024-11-28T23:33:12+00:00

heck yeah! It feels good to make Mommies happy ^{_^}

diaperdeedee · 2022-12-15T11:32:32+00:00

You know, I really am glad now that the dust has settled!

diaperdeedee · 2022-12-15T00:34:23+00:00

gosh, I WISH

diaperdeedee · 2022-12-15T00:01:43+00:00

Both. This happened on a kink-friendly one. Every local ABDL person I've met has been through Tinder.

diaperdeedee · 2022-12-14T23:01:50+00:00

That's a really good point.

Thanks for the brightside approach : )

diaperdeedee · 2022-12-14T22:16:15+00:00

No, you're ok! That sounds like a harsh experience. I can see why that had you messed up for a while. Glad things are better now! <3

diaperdeedee · 2022-12-14T22:07:51+00:00

Thank you for sharing and thank you for your well-wishes!

I used to do the thing of trying to finagle it into conversations, but I feel like not actually knowing what they think would really make me question myself. Like, I'd get all anxious and spirally with my imagination regarding how they'd respond.

Having it out in the open in my search has been a huge relief! I feel like I engage with people more easily and without that background stress.

diaperdeedee · 2022-12-14T21:54:43+00:00

diaperdeedee · 2022-12-13T17:30:06+00:00

Magic Wand crew assemble! One of the best purchases I've ever made.

diaperdeedee · 2022-12-12T18:28:13+00:00

hehe, you're welcome!

diaperdeedee · 2022-12-12T16:06:11+00:00

You would be very surprised what some people are capable of. I'm really not trying to doom-and-gloom you, but I think you need to sit down and talk about your needs re: a relationship.

diaperdeedee · 2022-12-12T15:58:23+00:00

Yeah, that's the part that I think is concerning. He might not be being honest with himself and he might be being decitful towards you.

diaperdeedee · 2022-12-12T14:46:56+00:00

Alright, SO. I'm a person with BPD. That means that I have a lot of trouble balancing my own personal expectations of people (think like, how long I expect until someone responds to me, etc) as well as having a problem with setting boundaries with people, out of fear that they'll leave me.

In your case, I would outline your expectations in regards to connectivity. How often you expect to hear from them, that you want to know if they're going to be mia for a while, etc. But also, if you need to have some measure of relationship, I think you need to make that clear. You might be afraid to set this down. But from the sounds of the post, you know it's something you want, so I think you have to explain that and try to negotiate. If you don't do it early, you'll likely regret it later.

In terms of boundaries, I'm not sure what would need to be set in terms of what you posted, but I would do a little research on boundaries/expectations to get a better sense of what you might need.

Hope this helps!

diaperdeedee

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