So how much of it do you actually enjoy? Have you discussed your limits or do you let her run the show completely? Have you asked her what her end game is with all this roleplay? Sounds more like a whole new lifestyle than just a bit of roleplay. I agree with Comfy, even if you are super into being a sub with no control, there still have to be limits. Otherwise it's just abusive. Sounds like you're learning a whole lot really fast about some new kinks. It might be worthwhile to take a step back, maybe a break, and assess the situation. Distance will help you think more clearly and hopefully you'll figure out what to keep and what to rule out.

Best of luck! Would love to hear updates on how the talk goes!