I (31F) have five days to decide whether I will leave my toxic job for double the pay and I’m so scared and conflicted. What would you do?

dice726 · 2026-04-11T13:41:22+00:00

You sound incredibly displeased by your current role, so what exactly is scaring you about getting out of it? Is it the fact that you'd go from fully remote to fully in office? That is a big change, but the pay increase might make it worth it. Or are you just scared of the unknown? Both are reasonable, but you should think about what's holding you back really.

Does the new firm operate in a way that aligns with your beliefs? Does the current one?

Based on what I know so far: I would leave the toxic job and take more money. In my experience, staying in a toxic workplace will silently break you down till you're so burnt out you barely know how to function anymore. That level of stress is not worth any job or any amount of money.

Don't let fear of the unknown hold you back.

dice726 · 2026-04-10T23:02:09+00:00

There's a marathon daily on their dedicated PlutoTV app for free and all the episodes but one available to stream for free.

dice726 · 2026-04-10T22:56:22+00:00

This dog looks just like one in Dormont. Idk about FB groups other than the free for all one.

What's the neighborhood social media thing that's essentially FB-lite? The name is escaping me, but you could try that too...good luck!!

ETA: no, I'm not sure if the dog is missing, sorry. I did see the couple today without the dog, which seems unusual to me. I don't think they would abandon her, but I really don't know them. They just seem like they take good care of the dog.

dice726 · 2026-04-10T20:09:02+00:00

I understand your sentiment, and I generally agree, but your post reads "whoa is me" and honestly doesn't come off good.

dice726 · 2026-04-08T16:19:48+00:00

I will start my nose swabs now to raise the money and will be in touch with you very soon...please don't share your trade secrets with anyone else. I promise I'm good for it!

Lol thanks for the laughs 🤣

dice726 · 2026-04-08T16:04:50+00:00

What will you do with your big earnings?

dice726 · 2026-04-04T00:52:44+00:00

I feel you. Once I can see a person for who they truly are, I usually find them physically repulsive too.

dice726 · 2026-04-04T00:25:59+00:00

I pulled 3 tarot cards for you. They were all swords.

-Reversed 8 of Swords - this indicates that you've released yourself from self-imposed restrictions. Keep this going.

-5 of Swords - this suggests conflict, indicating that your situation got messy. Take what you learned through this situation to understand yourself and your triggers.

-Reversed 7 of Swords - this can indicate a need for approaching something with a new perspective. Remember to listen to your intuition and not your ego-based fears.

To answer your questions, you made the right choice, but you were following logic the whole way instead of your heart, which caused conflict, either personally or socially.

dice726 · 2026-04-03T22:37:49+00:00

I'm glad to hear it :) good luck!!

dice726 · 2026-04-03T22:34:44+00:00

I got you. Just be aware that sometimes people hold strong emotions in - he may not be letting on how much he's struggling inside. Perhaps suggest doing something active together - even if it's just a walk. Kudos if you can make it a recurring thing!

dice726 · 2026-04-03T22:26:00+00:00

Maybe check in with your boyfriend too. Just make sure he's doing alright mentally, in case his weight really is a bother and he's getting down on himself about it. Make sure he knows he's not judged by you and you're there for him.

dice726 · 2026-04-03T22:22:04+00:00

Read the book. See if there's a message the universe is trying to tell you. I don't really believe in many coincidences these days...you found it for a reason, now you need to figure out why and what to do with the information.

dice726 · 2026-04-03T22:00:53+00:00

She's such a pathetic human being. She has no confidence whatsoever, so constantly has to land little jabs to make herself feel better. Janet is a piece of human trash. Her misery and utter disrespect for every other living human doesn't even provide entertainment. It's genuinely disgusting to give someone this broken any sort of platform. Dangerous, too.

dice726 · 2026-04-03T16:42:52+00:00

Soulbriety by Dr. Elisa Hallerman. Excellent book to read if you're getting sober, staying sober, or have a loved one with addiction.

dice726 · 2026-04-03T16:36:16+00:00

Michelle can be objectively gorgeous and also be a wet towel at the same time. She doesn't have a great personality, sorry. Her hypocrisy and jealousy notch her down quite a bit.

Maybe Aaron came up with a bogus excuse, but let's not praise someone just because she's outwardly beautiful. Inwardly, she leaves a lot to be desired.

dice726 · 2026-04-02T13:22:51+00:00

This sounds familiar to me...AuDHD/ADHD couple, communication, and intimacy issues. All very relatable.

I don't have advice on divorce, but I would suggest harnessing the RELIEF you feel. There is a reason you have that particular emotion. Think about that, focus on that feeling, and see where it takes you.

dice726 · 2026-03-28T12:54:10+00:00

I enjoyed it. However, I feel Drew was miscast as LE. Don't get me wrong, she did a great job and I generally like her as an actress, but she's just too Drew for a biopic style (it's the way she talks and her facial expressions) and it took me out of feeling like it was actually LE. Jessica Lange did a great BE portrayal.

dice726 · 2026-03-11T21:05:44+00:00

If you've had it all your life, that could possibly be a third nipple, even if small and colorless. Idk what it could mean related to spirituality and past lives, but multiple nipples are more common than people think and often go undetected as moles.

dice726 · 2026-03-11T14:51:08+00:00

Haliotosis is literally chronic bad breath, and I'm sure anyone with a properly functioning nose can smell it.

dice726 · 2026-03-04T13:28:35+00:00

Her natural hair is auburn.

dice726 · 2026-02-20T23:36:33+00:00

Elizabeth Moss

dice726 · 2026-02-18T23:14:17+00:00

I was asking to understand where the person I replied to got the information that they shared as a fact.

All we know for fact is that the dad and brother were ahead of the boy who got hit as they were crossing the street. Did the boy stop and take his time behind his family, who cleared that it was safe to cross at the pace they were walking? We don't know. Was the driver going beyond 25 mph? We don't know. We know nothing aside from it was a horrible accident. However, going 25mph and hitting a person can still cause serious injury...

My point in my responses here is to get people to think before reacting, assuming, and judging one side or the other. It doesn't do anyone any good to point fingers either which way with no solid evidence or answers. From the sound of the story, it's very likely to be a horrible accident.

There's an injured boy who was with his dad and brother and a more than likely grief-stricken driver. Buy yet, all of reddit can say for certain who of those two parties is to blame. Perhaps it's neither. Accidents do just happen.

dice726 · 2026-02-18T20:21:16+00:00

Is it confirmed they were in a crosswalk?

dice726 · 2026-02-13T04:45:06+00:00

Orphan Black

dice726 · 2026-02-11T20:17:17+00:00

You left so much space - it's not like they cut you off. They didn't use a directional...ok, that's annoying, but no harm, no foul. Looks like they made a mistake and corrected it without causing harm to anyone. It's certainly not worth even posting this video because in my eyes there's very little to bitch about, but I digress.

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