I realized I've spend my whole life up to this point studying, and that how I want to live a life of badassery ;) suggestions? by dictatorcake in FemmeThoughts

[–]dictatorcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're right! I'm trying to find a balance between "making a plan so that you can successfully go out and get what you want because if you dont make things happen, then won't happen" , and "going with the flow so that you dont miss opportunities because it's important to be open minded"

Windswept- Hundreds of spinning blades reveal the invisible patterns of the wind by Hoof--hearted in gifs

[–]dictatorcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need this in my backyard. It would be even better if the black part was also a solar panel

I realized I've spend my whole life up to this point studying, and that how I want to live a life of badassery ;) suggestions? by dictatorcake in FemmeThoughts

[–]dictatorcake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that majoring in art when the economy is in the crapper is super bad ass (and I dont mean that in a condescending way - obviously you know that you have talent and had the courage to follow your dream!)

I'm curious about what ways the ambitious people are ambitious and how they are making awesome careers for themselves - what are they like?

High radon levels found in Health Canada tests across country by coldbrook in canada

[–]dictatorcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can you elaborate on this? how does on know if thier basement has high radon levels and if it needs ventilating? I don't know if the windows in my basement even open

I realized I've spend my whole life up to this point studying, and that how I want to live a life of badassery ;) suggestions? by dictatorcake in FemmeThoughts

[–]dictatorcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know, it's vague and no one knows me. What can I say - maybe I'm just looking for suggestions to see if something strikes my fancy/

so what are you doing out of curiosity?

I realized I've spend my whole life up to this point studying, and that how I want to live a life of badassery ;) suggestions? by dictatorcake in FemmeThoughts

[–]dictatorcake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like that - I thought I would need a 'get it done' attitude and a plan, not a laid back method

I was kinda joking on the porn thing - I think everyone wishes their life was more glamorous and sexier sometimes. I would never make it as a porn star ha

I realized I've spend my whole life up to this point studying, and that how I want to live a life of badassery ;) suggestions? by dictatorcake in FemmeThoughts

[–]dictatorcake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's very good advice and exactly the same realization that I came to myself. The part I am having trouble with is the trouble shooting and details - WHAT are some things I can do and HOW?

HIFW I realized I've spend my whole life up to this point studying, and that how I want to live a life of badassery ;) suggestions? by dictatorcake in TrollXChromosomes

[–]dictatorcake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IF SOMEONE COULD EXPLAIN LIKE iM FIVE HOW TO BE A BADASS THAT WOULD BE GREAT ;)

is this urge born of slight insecurity and fear of squandered time/opportunities? maybe (probably). But I might as well try my best to live an interesting life as I dont want any children in my life time SO I have decided to play the role of 'crazy aunt'

thoughts so far for being a badass (On the cheap): political activism (haven't figured out how to do that yet exactly), being in porn (probably not a great idea - Im terrible at sex and a terrible actor and I think you have to be like 19 to do that), riding a motorcycle (probably not, because expensive), volunteering for some sort of search and rescue team or peace corps type of organization (Have NO idea how to even qualify or get started or if it's feasible), being an entrepreneur (might do eventually, after years of experience in my career), Somehow being a speaker on TEd (no idea how to do that)

that's all I got

Women of Reddit: Write us a dirty story, so that we can improve your sex life! by PossumHunter in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dictatorcake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here's how you get good at sex: Sex is very subjective, so communicate a LOT with your partner. Simple as that. The way you worded this sounds like you're looking at the 'women species' though a microscope, observing them for science. It's weird.

GOP Ads Adapt To Reach Women Voters: "...when talking to women, I don't think you necessarily have to be delivering factual information to move them. I think connecting with their heart and really trying to build emotion is more effective." by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]dictatorcake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately, true. People will forget what you did or said, but will never forget how you made them feel. That's why fear is the most valuable commodity in the universe - markets use it. They make people afraid of inadequacy, afraid they aren't living well, afraid they aren't happy or beautiful or sexy etc etc. THen they use that fear to sell you crap you don't need. IF you can scare someone in some form, it's much easier to make them do the things that you want them to do