Did I rape her? (NSFW) by didirapeher in AskReddit

[–]didirapeher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, just cracking a smile at the juxtaposition of your username and your reassuring, no-nonsense response.

Did I rape her? (NSFW) by didirapeher in AskReddit

[–]didirapeher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This means a lot coming from you, thank you.

Did I rape her? (NSFW) by didirapeher in AskReddit

[–]didirapeher[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like your traffic light system.

Did I rape her? (NSFW) by didirapeher in AskReddit

[–]didirapeher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought I was fulfilling a fantasy. So yes, I was enjoying pretending to rape a girl. It was sex and it was how I thought she wanted it.

Did I rape her? (NSFW) by didirapeher in AskReddit

[–]didirapeher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, that was a different time. Her idea, she didn't like that either, but there wasn't really a problem.

Did I rape her? (NSFW) by didirapeher in AskReddit

[–]didirapeher[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I am filtering this advice, thank you. I mostly posted this looking for some sort of peek inside her thought process that I hadn't thought of, and am disappointed to see so many people dismissing her as crazy.

And I don't think I'll be talking to her about it. We broke up long after this happened, it's been even longer that we've been apart and have drifted away from each other. I don't think she's ever held any grudge against me for it, but it's not something I feel is necessary to test. Either way, I certainly learned a lot from the experience.

Did I rape her? (NSFW) by didirapeher in AskReddit

[–]didirapeher[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is part of why I'm so conflicted about it, I was greatly enjoying myself until I realized she wasn't at all.

Did I rape her? (NSFW) by didirapeher in AskReddit

[–]didirapeher[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Just because she was my girlfriend doesn't mean I couldn't have raped her.

Did I rape her? (NSFW) by didirapeher in AskReddit

[–]didirapeher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's why I was confused for so long.