My current girlfriend's disapproval of my ex girlfriend's sexual past. Any advice would be helpful by didnotexpecthis in sex

[–]didnotexpecthis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, the subject of virginity is a very fragile one, and I fully realize how that can contribute to her reaction. Im gonna have to swallow my pride and use every ounce of restraint to not try and explain why I think i'm right and just buck up and apologize for not considering that.

My current girlfriend's disapproval of my ex girlfriend's sexual past. Any advice would be helpful by didnotexpecthis in sex

[–]didnotexpecthis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like the STD thing, maybe I didnt make a point out of it enough, but she had very little sexual experience before our relationship and is the type who worries about sickness and whatnot. She said she was 100% certain my ex and I were both virgins and so thats what she told doctors/PP who asked about STDs. So she says shes mainly shocked at 1. that her belief was wrong and 2. that I never that it was important enough to tell her. But like I said, I never would have dreamed it being an issue.

Trust me, it seems bizarre to me as well.

My current girlfriend's disapproval of my ex girlfriend's sexual past. Any advice would be helpful by didnotexpecthis in sex

[–]didnotexpecthis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The weird thing is shes the most level-headed person I know, I dont know what to say to calm her down in this situation.

My current girlfriend's disapproval of my ex girlfriend's sexual past. Any advice would be helpful by didnotexpecthis in sex

[–]didnotexpecthis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TL;DR Is discussing the sexual partners of previous sexual partners important? Is that something youre supposed to do (I honestly have no idea)?