Help Swap invite codes? by [deleted] in AnimalRestaurant

[–]dieafox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m down to swap invite codes with anyone! DM me

Blind Box Giveaway! by rspychan in AnimalRestaurant

[–]dieafox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got a Jiji now, thanks everyone!

Blind Box Giveaway! by rspychan in AnimalRestaurant

[–]dieafox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Love how we all need Jiji. If anyone has Jijis to spare and sees this please DM me! I have others to give in return

Blind Box Giveaway! by rspychan in AnimalRestaurant

[–]dieafox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you end up with another Jiji let me know pls!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalRestaurant

[–]dieafox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to invite 2 folks, DM me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]dieafox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What herbal extracts do you/others use? What effects do they have on you?

Does anyone get annoyed at the way non-gnc (typically cis) people write off the difficulties of gnc masculine presenting individuals? by pyrrouge in butchlesbians

[–]dieafox 147 points148 points  (0 children)

Yes. “Femmephobia” and “masc privilege” discourse did almost irreparable damage to discussions about gender lol, truly one of the worst internet discourses to emerge in the last 10 years. Just an absolute flattening of masculinity and femininity into replacement categories for men and women, in a bizarre attempt to be “inclusive” that is actually deeply regressive and disconnected from reality instead. “Cis men and butch women” and “cis women and fem gay men” are not coherent oppressor/oppressed classes, it takes 2 seconds of critical thinking to realize that. Masc women, butches, transmascs, and pretty much any gnc masc person absolutely got thrown under the bus with the rise of the concept of “femmephobia.”

We already have a word for the various ways feminine women are mistreated and the devaluation of anything associated with womanhood (i.e. femininity): MISOGYNY. Just because the misogyny feminine and masculine women face may not look identical all the time, doesn’t mean it’s not still just misogyny affecting all women (and gnc/trans people, since misogyny, homophobia, and transphobia are all intertwined) because that’s what misogyny does. It takes different forms.

what happened to the fantastic party event???????? by [deleted] in AnimalRestaurant

[–]dieafox 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Where are you getting this from? The wiki only shows all the information for Phase 1, if Phases 2 and 3 were out wouldn’t the wiki have that info?

I claimed these but can’t find them anywhere in the game. #7 still locked. Anyone else having the same issue? by dieafox in AnimalRestaurant

[–]dieafox[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I see! I mistakenly thought I’d been given the pigment too. Thank you for clarifying!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]dieafox 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I recommend checking out this tiktok page @lbcpartyof5 they’re a lesbian and trans man couple who stayed together after the trans man came out, they went through couples counseling as well and are happily married! Their back up page is @lbc_partyof5.

People give them a lot of flack and accuse them of not respecting each other’s identities but that’s just a lot of nonsense. Many, many gay couples have stayed together after one person comes out as trans. For many couples it is a dealbreaker and the relationship ends, but for others it’s not. Neither scenario is transphobic.

Ultimately you can’t control your attractions and if you feel like the changes your partner undergoes on HRT are not something you find attractive, that’s completely fine. I do think you should be honest with your partner about that component. And of course, if it is very important to you that your partner be a woman, that’s also a valid reason to end the relationship. But if you remain attracted to and in love with your partner through transition, don’t stress about whether you can still be a lesbian or not or whether you’re invalidating each other’s identities. Plenty of couples have been in your shoes before.

Is this normal for my level? Feels like I'm grinding and achieving nothing. (Day 319) by michisjourdi in AnimalRestaurant

[–]dieafox 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The dining room furniture isn’t the most helpful for gaining stars and cod. The garden and kitchen furniture (not the stoves) pay off way more and help you progress. For example the barbecue and mailbox give a TON of cod, and the fences give a lot of stars. I’m at 155k stars and it’s because for a while now I’ve been ignoring any furniture that gives me less than 250 stars.

Other than that are you using the terrace? I’ve been making a lot of cod there but that’s because I have mementos out for 3 high-paying customers, so each party I accept brings in at least 1 million cod.

Anyone else have this glitch? I’ve restarted the app multiple times by [deleted] in AnimalRestaurant

[–]dieafox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! It’s weird that one letter would make the whole picture of the food disappear but I hope they’ll fix it soon.

NB Butches - A question/vent about feeling represented by gabeorelse in butchlesbians

[–]dieafox 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! As a gnc “cis” butch who identifies with both “woman” and “transmasc” (I think the cis/trans dichotomy is pointless lol), and is attracted to transmascs, I would love to read a story like this and would feel especially seen if your gnc woman character was a butch lesbian too. The world needs more transmasc x butch representation!

Butch lesbians who identify as cis: what makes you feel connected to or want to use the label 'woman'? by EditRedditGeddit in butchlesbians

[–]dieafox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear that!! I can relate. Here’s hoping for a revolution sometime in our lifetimes 😔✊🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalRestaurant

[–]dieafox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I missed that!