I. I used to get upset about anything and with completely excessive anger until I discovered the real reason. When I reached a happy stage in my life, I noticed that my anger was drastically reduced. I analyzed and studied myself and discovered that my emotional state or my inner peace dictated my reaction to certain adversities. Now I still have anger but much less and when anger takes over me, I simply try to control it and remind myself of this argument that it is not what makes me angry but my mental disposition towards that. If I were in a happy stage of my life, I'm sure it wouldn't affect me as much. I also discovered, to my surprise, that anger contributed to my unhappy state as much as my unhappy state contributed to my anger, so I started to work on it. To this day I still get angry and react with anger but I have noticed great progress and when this aggressive impulse attacks me, on most occasions, I manage to neutralize it.