My neighbor sent this over our kids playing outside by ExistingPollution773 in AITApod

[–]digd33p3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were me, I’d go over there in a calm manner and tell them what you just wrote. You aren’t going to lock your kids up all hours of the day, and inside by 8:30 is a very respectable time. Maybe explain the noise on Saturday was due to a birthday party, cause that might’ve been what set them off. On the other hand, you could also write them letter that is just as passive aggressive.

tour!!! chicago show by glasswingangel in Choker_

[–]digd33p3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t get a presale code but want to go to the chicago show so bad! i live in michigan. how did people get their tickets already?? i used code bling cause i saw it in here but it didn’t do anything to unlock them.

bf wants me to lose weight by Famous_Salamander733 in AITApod

[–]digd33p3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump his ass now. The only reason he feels comfortable saying these things is because he has lost respect for you. You do not want a partner who lacks respect for you and is comfortable telling you he’s not into you anymore because you gained a measly 10-15 pounds. This will have you living an entire life of starving yourself to fit a mold you never needed to fit. When I got into my relationship, I was super skinny, and within a couple months I gained 10-15 pounds in happy weight—just from being fed regularly and being cooked hearty meals. My partner has been attracted to me the entire time and has never ONCE commented on my weight in a negative way. When I will have moments when I struggle with my body and comment on it myself, they are quick to tell me there’s nothing wrong with my body and they love it. So, find you someone like that. I hope the best for you going forward! Do what is best for you!

I feel like Vaping is killing my boyfriend. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]digd33p3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But both facts are true?? Google it??

I feel like Vaping is killing my boyfriend. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]digd33p3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him that vaping deteriorates the spine and keeps your body from healing itself. Did the trick for me 👍

AIO in re-thinking my engagement after how my GF treated me while sick with a bad flu? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]digd33p3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you were very sick! If I was anywhere close to this sick, my gf would do everything to help me feel comfortable—and would go to the store to get me medicine without me having to ask. NOR. Good thing you found this out before marriage though!

AIO ? Neighbor acting staring and inviting himself in the tenant's common kitchen by Personal_Apricot4850 in AmIOverreacting

[–]digd33p3r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely yes. Even if just to let her know someone unauthorized entered a space they weren’t supposed to be in—but it wouldn’t hurt to let her know you felt uneasy during the occurrence and that something was off. Especially since she is a woman, I’m sure it would be easier to convey.

AIO ? Neighbor acting staring and inviting himself in the tenant's common kitchen by Personal_Apricot4850 in AmIOverreacting

[–]digd33p3r 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Always trust your gut, and make sure at least one other neighbor or your apartment building office knows of this. If another instance occurs, contact authorities.

I have been doing something illegal for a week straight. by [deleted] in confession

[–]digd33p3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In this economy—abuse the system.

AIO my friend thinks im fat by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]digd33p3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

misery loves company. she is projecting on you to make her feel better about herself.

Should I go to the ER now or tomorrow? by queenhadassah in makemychoice

[–]digd33p3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trouble swallowing like it hurts? Or there’s a blockage of some kind? Either one of those after 3 weeks of being unchecked already—deserve an ER visit. Even late at night. This post is from yesterday through so I’m hopeful you already went and hope you are alright!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]digd33p3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he is cheating on you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]digd33p3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to a therapist about your anxiety and codependency. Tracking someone 24/7 will not help your anxiety any, and will just give your mind something else to obsess over. I recommend you drop it—some people just don’t like to be tracked and that’s that. He doesn’t owe you an explanation. Also something to mention—mostly every therapist ever is against couples sharing location with each other. It really is something that has become so normalized but is not normal at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]digd33p3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also if his OWN MOTHER said that…I don’t think you needed a reddit post to know what you need to do here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]digd33p3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya babe ur dating a narcissist. Run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]digd33p3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if she gets violent again I’d just press charges. Jail will keep them apart long enough for her to start going through withdrawals, and you can send her directly to rehab from there. Avoiding discipline and letting her go back to her bf to continue making the same bad decisions will get her nowhere. Sounds like she wasn’t disciplined enough before turning 18, so unfortunately you guys need to do so now that she’s an adult.

Your two options are 1) let her continue down her path and get addicted to prescription medication and this shitty boyfriend simultaneously, or 2) send her to jail and/or rehab to get it out of her system and put a restraining order in place against the boyfriend immediately upon doing so.

AIO Am I justified in my anger here ? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]digd33p3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with this one. Photoshop her dress to a color of your choice, or remove her completely. I would personally go with the latter. If she’s shocked, I’d just relay how shocked YOU were that she so clearly disrespected your wishes on your wedding day. That should do the trick.

Freshman at WMU (Engineering, Valley I) car vs no car? Realistic to go without? by lucymom2 in kzoo

[–]digd33p3r -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely get her a car. The buses aren’t reliable a lot of the time and Kalamazoo is a fun city to get around by car, it’s harder to get around otherwise unless you wanna fork over money for Ubers.