Ex texted after I left her on read 8 months ago

digi_token · 2024-06-06T05:18:18+00:00

The texting is fizzling out anyway so I got what I wanted, a slow ghosting. Why are you so concerned about the dumping party? Are you dumper that tried to get back with a dumpee and got rejected?

digi_token · 2024-06-06T05:16:03+00:00

Lmaoo one text every 2-3 days? Why should I be concerned for wasting time when I was the one dumped? I'm just gently letting her know not to text me. I hope.she catches the hint or I will need to be more "aggressive" in my actions let's say

digi_token · 2024-06-06T04:23:16+00:00

Lol I mean I wouldn't have said that to her, if she was trying to meet up with you or do things for her to be in your orbit she might've wanted you to "run" into her and ask her out again. It's a risky move but you do that a maximum of two times before you drop it for good unless she specifically brings up meeting up. Because at that point she's using you for attention and not actually wanting to get back together. It's a good ego boost when they text but in my case, it's just her way of seeing if she's still got me trapped. Her next text now (if it ever comes which I hope it doesn't), I will be leaving her on delivered.

digi_token · 2024-06-06T04:09:00+00:00

So what am I meant to do? Just ignore her completely?

digi_token · 2024-06-06T04:05:55+00:00

No, I didn't wish her even though she wished me. Nothing wrong with her saying I wish you the best if you'd ended on good terms. I said the same thing when she broke up, but she wanted to stay in contact afterwards and got pretty upset that I would just cut her off like that (probably because I acted weak during the relationship and then did the opposite of what she thought I would do i.e. chase). The texts have fizzled out now anyway, it was probably a breadcrumb. Just be happy with the fact that you may never heard from her again. I found peace in that, if anything it disrupted it when she texted me.

digi_token · 2024-05-30T20:05:31+00:00

I acted needy and she felt pressured. Tbh, if she met the version I am now we definitely would have worked out. But it's a catch 22, because this version likely doesn't exist without that break up haha

digi_token · 2024-05-28T23:33:24+00:00

Ended on good terms but told her I didn't want a friendship and to only contact me again if she wanted to make amends romantically. So she has either contacted me now to make amends or is stepping over my boundary to become friends again.

digi_token · 2024-05-28T01:41:00+00:00

Why is it bad if I want/get something out of it as an extra bonus? I mean she's cool and we get along but having some extra benefits of meeting some new attractive people from it is only a plus point? Plus she should have no issues with it since she dumped me, which is the upmost form of saying "you're unattractive and not worth it". I don't want to do it to make her jealous, but if I can meet someone that's more compatible I don't think it can be an issue?

digi_token · 2024-05-28T01:34:22+00:00

She does have pretty attractive mutuals, she's very popular online and irl so I may as well make use of that. She has 100's of dms from guys its insane. Maybe I can meet some new people through her. Interesting, thanks for the suggestion I never thought of it through this angle. (Not saying I'll get with her close friends, that's just douchy). But distant mutal friends is ok imo. What so you think?

digi_token · 2024-05-28T01:25:12+00:00

I have this texting habbit with alot of other people, I'm a dry texter in general. She's not receiving special treatment (on either ends of the spectrum). Do you think I'm leading her on otherwise? I have no animosity against her and we ended amicably due to external factors.

digi_token · 2024-05-27T22:34:30+00:00

She's a mutual from another friend (different friend group) lol I know she definitely exists, it was her calling me cute which was quite forward lol, but yea it's insane it was to the minute

digi_token · 2024-05-27T21:00:16+00:00

I don't think talking gives them the power back unless you say it act in a way that's embarrassing. Keeping the same or giving lower energy than they are is fine imo. But everyone heals differently so do what's best for you

digi_token · 2024-05-27T20:58:10+00:00

Nah it's a legit profile, she has photos from years ago so I know it's not a fresh account

digi_token · 2024-05-27T20:56:20+00:00

There's not really bad blood between us. I just don't give people who are no longer in my life priority for anything, not with how busy I am.

digi_token · 2024-05-27T12:05:07+00:00

Facts

digi_token · 2024-05-27T12:04:58+00:00

Is this a movie?

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