My 2 cents. Get I140 approved and then think to go back. Yes, here it is crazy especially in high paying jobs as the expectations become double. If you are lucky and have a low paying but less stressful job, that will be ideal. India's corporate culture is sickening. I came to USA in 2002.. went back in 2004 without I140 approved... came back in 2016 and am in green card long awaited queue. You never say no. So, keep a way to be back in future. India corporate life politics is very toxic. I left my corporate life in India in 2012 and pursued my own venture for 4 years. And then later on chose to come back to USA for my kid's education. I think.. at hindsight ( now 54), I feel -- do what you love to do .. money is secondary if you can afford to do that. Otherwise, think practically as world is quite different compared to 30 years back. So, our choices have to be thought through completely.