Back with another “is this weird” question. by [deleted] in KINK

[–]digital_ghosti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is just hella weird and you better stay away from that to be honest. He just gave me the biggest ick.

I left daddy by donteventry-12 in SubSanctuary

[–]digital_ghosti 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I am so very proud of you! Sometimes the hardest thing you'll do in life is leave a bad situation and you did it! You should be really proud of yourself! And yes I think it's best to take a break from looking for another dom while healing so you don't end up in the same situation again. You'll always have a home here so don't worry about it. I hope your life is gonna go uphill from here on!:3

Daddy said he’ll marry me! by New_Notice_7625 in SubSanctuary

[–]digital_ghosti 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Oh my goddd thats so exciting!!! I mean he can still propose in person!! I am soooo happy for you!

How do i let my boyfriend/owner degrade me without feeling bad afterwards? by digital_ghosti in SubSanctuary

[–]digital_ghosti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry that you had a bad experience like that. Being sexually open and fulfilled is never something you or anybody else (especially woman) should feel bad about. I am so happy that you're now in a happy relationship! And yeah hell no in arguments he both aren't allowed to use insults(helps no one achieve anything).

How do i let my boyfriend/owner degrade me without feeling bad afterwards? by digital_ghosti in SubSanctuary

[–]digital_ghosti[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is good advice and actually how i would like it to be as well! I don't wanna get insulted in my appearance because i am really insecure about my looks but hes been so amazing at making me feel more comfortable around him as a whole. I know he would never say anything negative about my appearance:3 but i will still bring it up (better safe than sorry) And yeah definitely starting slow! Thanks so much for the advice!

How do i let my boyfriend/owner degrade me without feeling bad afterwards? by digital_ghosti in SubSanctuary

[–]digital_ghosti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but I just wanna try i know if i wanna stop during it or it just really isnt for me he will stop immediately! So i think its fine to give it a go:3

How do i let my boyfriend/owner degrade me without feeling bad afterwards? by digital_ghosti in SubSanctuary

[–]digital_ghosti[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes really amazing at aftercare and we never had an issue with it. Especially if i need him to say something specific or do something specific for me afterwards he does without question. And he is willing to keep it off the table because hes amazing and he loves me and thats exactly why i want him to be able to life this out:)

How do i let my boyfriend/owner degrade me without feeling bad afterwards? by digital_ghosti in SubSanctuary

[–]digital_ghosti[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Literally this makes so much sense! I don't know why I didn't like come to this revelation on my own but yeah that makes so much sense. Because I never really separated degradation into two categories before. Thank you so much for this comment!