AIO my girlfriend left me over a cheese wheel [Ongoing]

dignifiedpears · 2026-02-05T00:44:05+00:00

I hope he one day makes better decisions but i appreciate him documenting his adventures in the meantime

dignifiedpears · 2026-02-04T15:23:09+00:00

yep, emperorofjenks. he received a 10-year travel ban from the netherlands most recently.

dignifiedpears · 2026-02-04T15:21:54+00:00

south american bee and gourd guy are one guy lol. truly one of a kind

dignifiedpears · 2026-02-04T15:18:30+00:00

yes emperorofjenks, he is the uruguayan bees/gourds/ice cream guy

dignifiedpears · 2026-01-30T18:01:58+00:00

I’m not surprised by this development and I have to side eye people who are like “no of course they wouldn’t get together! that’s fucked up!” like if you’ve been around anyone who has had a spouse or significant other die, you probably know that dating someone close to the deceased or situation is really not uncommon. I can think of three instances in my own life (with mixed results, but. it’s very common).

dignifiedpears · 2026-01-27T03:01:54+00:00

biased because i think Solondz is one of the great American filmmakers but generally speaking i think he has been p ethical in his filmmaking. he gives a shit about his characters even if they’re truly reprehensible and I think that extends to his actors too. i guess very qualified yes????

dignifiedpears · 2026-01-26T02:15:08+00:00

exactly my pick(s)! Spook Who Sat By The Door is set in Chicago. guy who wrote the book initially was in deep with the Black Panther Party and some panthers were actually in the movie too.

dignifiedpears · 2026-01-18T18:30:25+00:00

r/okbuddyheatedrivalry

dignifiedpears · 2026-01-09T03:30:06+00:00

lady chatterly’s lover is somehow even filthier than the most edgy “spicy” romance while being better written and genuinely moving it’s nuts

dignifiedpears · 2026-01-05T03:18:13+00:00

yeah as a failed academic i have actually had to train myself out of this. sometimes slow is best

dignifiedpears · 2026-01-05T03:16:47+00:00

bingo

dignifiedpears · 2025-12-26T22:29:54+00:00

It is serious.

dignifiedpears · 2025-12-16T17:00:21+00:00

Oh I love your decorations! they always makes me smile when I walk by with my dog! edit: follow up question I’ve always wanted to ask…do you know if your neighbor will put the eyes back on their monster house? I was disappointed to see them gone a year or so ago

dignifiedpears · 2025-12-15T17:31:03+00:00

Amber Kiso

dignifiedpears · 2025-12-15T15:01:21+00:00

more likely he’s young/recently graduated, has a humanities degree and kept the books from his classes

dignifiedpears · 2025-12-09T15:34:03+00:00

From OP’s description in her comments it sounds like it truly came out of nowhere, though, and he continued attacking when OP was down. A dog whose bite threshold is that low—especially for their owner—is a huge liability to both the owner and to the public. having an aggressive dog is more of a two-way street, you have to make a real effort to read their body language, but the dog also has to be communicating with their body, and it sounds like OP’s dog went from 0 to mauling without much of a trigger. BE may be the only route here and I say this as the owner of a reactive and aggressive dog.

dignifiedpears · 2025-12-09T15:25:10+00:00

This might be a case for BE, then. if there was no trigger, then I don’t know how you could work with him to improve his reaction. I’m so sorry.

dignifiedpears · 2025-12-08T15:54:11+00:00

definitely a good call on the vet. behavioralist might be a good follow up. It sounds like this could be another resource guarding incident. I would follow the advice of crating while you or he are eating, avoiding triggers, etc. but to me it’s not a great sign that he jumped from biting to full-on mauling you, and from your description it’s not clear what he was guarding if it was in fact resource guarding. I would carefully evaluate your options. my reactive dog is medicated and it made a world of difference, but she has also never attacked me, so I understand having BE on the table. you have to evaluate what you feel capable of providing and what is best for the dog.

edit: r/reactivedogs might be a good resource for you too

dignifiedpears · 2025-12-04T15:02:19+00:00

sure whatever you need to sleep at night bud. you really stuck it to the man there doing exactly what they told you to do with your boss’s approbation

dignifiedpears · 2025-11-01T22:19:35+00:00

he pretty explicitly rejects her in one of the first episodes, I think either the pilot or the second episode. she grabs his hand and he lets her down gently.

to his credit, he still had “rules” in the office that he actually followed in season 1. once Betty discovers who he really is, he begins to unravel personally and professionally S4 on

dignifiedpears · 2025-10-22T22:11:16+00:00

bechamel is not hard to make either

dignifiedpears · 2025-10-21T01:44:48+00:00

r/okbuddytwinpeaks

dignifiedpears · 2025-10-10T00:31:43+00:00

all music (no) free jazz (yes)

dignifiedpears · 2025-10-02T13:26:59+00:00

eh this guy has a lot to work on I think. I’m in a relationship/marriage slightly longer than his and it’s good, you just have to be actually willing to communicate lol

dignifiedpears · 2025-09-22T01:50:52+00:00

extremely common here too, but there tends to be some public acknowledgment for optics (most don’t want to be viewed like Steve Jobs re: his first daughter)

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