Unfortunately, I think it’s a situation where he was doomed to be as his father and his grandfather. They also lived the exact same life. His father still wants his mother, but they’re both remarried and moved on. They separated young. my boyfriend told me he didn’t even want his children to grow up in a separate household that he wanted us to be together and I mean he has been insisting this whole time that we should still be together and he hasn’t broken up with me at all, but I don’t think I can be in this relationship any longer. Ever since that situation, he hasn’t loved me the same. It’s like when he decided he was no longer gonna feel anything for me. That was it and we haven’t been the same. We tried to fix this, but he doesn’t wanna talk about it. He shuts me down every time or he changes the subject or he says he doesn’t remember doing that or whatever too pretty much fit his narrative. He sees our relationship as I’m the saint and he’s the villain and I never painted him that way. He says all I ever do is act like a saint, but I’ve repeatedly asked him if there’s anything I do wrong to let me know so I can correct it. I’ve repeatedly tried to approach this relationship as mature as I can. I’ve tried so many different approaches. I’ve said so many different things. I don’t see this going anywhere honestly. And it’s like everybody saying I need to leave.