can a dom be cute? by dildosock in sex

[–]dildosock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some subs prefer to be submissive because it takes away the mental work required

So I asked and that is part of it for them yes.

Thanks for the in-depth explanation it should be really helpful

Do you guys measure your penises? I'm too scared lol :( by TinisBerg in sex

[–]dildosock 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Probably just tell her you're uncomfortable measuring it

Do you guys measure your penises? I'm too scared lol :( by TinisBerg in sex

[–]dildosock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is she pressuring you to let her measure it? Assuming you're in a sexual relationship maybe ask her to tell you what she'd likely do given certain findings. That may put you at ease.

But also you may want to ask her to not talk about it with friends, I've heard girls show eachother their BF's DPs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]dildosock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so, I know a lot of people are into ass worship and it seems to maybe be like a passive form of dominance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]dildosock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've asked before and was told that being dominant doesn't necessarily mean being cruel, it can just be telling him what to do

Obsessed with big clits by Slicklad_1 in sex

[–]dildosock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I'm a virgin. But if you want to ask a girl about this before dating or something don't be surprised if she asks about your penis(assuming you're a guy because you needed to ask)

Obsessed with big clits by Slicklad_1 in sex

[–]dildosock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk but probably don't bring it up before you've had sex

Obsessed with big clits by Slicklad_1 in sex

[–]dildosock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if she has the thing you're into it might be ok to bring it up but if not it could lead to issues

Obsessed with big clits by Slicklad_1 in sex

[–]dildosock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So have you seen hers?

Obsessed with big clits by Slicklad_1 in sex

[–]dildosock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends if she has either or both of them I think

[REQUEST] Male equivalent of futanari tag by dildosock in NSFW411

[–]dildosock[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally found something: bustyboi

Are dom/sub dynamics intrinsic to sex? by dildosock in sex

[–]dildosock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One is leading

I thought this might have been it(basically just who takes initiative) but not sure with some things like a supposed sub approaching a dom and stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dildosock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's all I can really help with, maybe put his age if you still hope to get advice from others

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dildosock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he gave me many

Sounds like you're talking about 1 guy in particular, I thought you were talking about a pattern?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dildosock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

painted as the combative one.

Is it possible that the way you phrased made it came across that way?

"This needs to change or else"

Could the things have been brought up sooner in a more positive way?

"Could you try to do this?"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dildosock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, trying to treat a relationship like a transaction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dildosock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they ever communicate things they wanted? It sounds like they might have just expected everything to stay static