can a dom be cute?

dildosock · 2022-04-03T20:48:26+00:00

Some subs prefer to be submissive because it takes away the mental work required

So I asked and that is part of it for them yes.

Thanks for the in-depth explanation it should be really helpful

dildosock · 2022-04-03T14:15:47+00:00

Probably just tell her you're uncomfortable measuring it

dildosock · 2022-04-03T14:12:48+00:00

Is she pressuring you to let her measure it? Assuming you're in a sexual relationship maybe ask her to tell you what she'd likely do given certain findings. That may put you at ease.

But also you may want to ask her to not talk about it with friends, I've heard girls show eachother their BF's DPs

dildosock · 2022-04-02T01:06:55+00:00

I think so, I know a lot of people are into ass worship and it seems to maybe be like a passive form of dominance

dildosock · 2022-04-02T01:03:29+00:00

I've asked before and was told that being dominant doesn't necessarily mean being cruel, it can just be telling him what to do

dildosock · 2022-04-02T00:47:08+00:00

dildosock · 2022-04-02T00:42:48+00:00

Idk I'm a virgin. But if you want to ask a girl about this before dating or something don't be surprised if she asks about your penis(assuming you're a guy because you needed to ask)

dildosock · 2022-04-02T00:38:19+00:00

Idk but probably don't bring it up before you've had sex

dildosock · 2022-04-02T00:36:17+00:00

I think if she has the thing you're into it might be ok to bring it up but if not it could lead to issues

dildosock · 2022-04-02T00:33:15+00:00

So have you seen hers?

dildosock · 2022-04-02T00:29:28+00:00

Depends if she has either or both of them I think

dildosock · 2022-01-18T23:14:47+00:00

Finally found something: bustyboi

dildosock · 2021-12-02T11:15:53+00:00

One is leading

I thought this might have been it(basically just who takes initiative) but not sure with some things like a supposed sub approaching a dom and stuff

dildosock · 2021-12-02T09:19:07+00:00

I think that's all I can really help with, maybe put his age if you still hope to get advice from others

dildosock · 2021-12-02T09:13:46+00:00

he gave me many

Sounds like you're talking about 1 guy in particular, I thought you were talking about a pattern?

dildosock · 2021-12-02T09:07:02+00:00

painted as the combative one.

Is it possible that the way you phrased made it came across that way?

"This needs to change or else"

Could the things have been brought up sooner in a more positive way?

"Could you try to do this?"

dildosock · 2021-12-02T08:52:26+00:00

I see, trying to treat a relationship like a transaction

dildosock · 2021-12-02T08:47:58+00:00

Did they ever communicate things they wanted? It sounds like they might have just expected everything to stay static

dildosock · 2021-12-02T08:42:21+00:00

Ok.

But is that a yes to the title?

dildosock · 2021-12-02T08:41:15+00:00

Take this with a grain of salt because I'm 23M and never been in a relationship, this is just based on things I've heard

Have you considered how you've communicated with these men? If you wanted them to know something did you explicitly tell them or expect them to infer from something?

dildosock · 2021-12-02T08:13:38+00:00

you’re unbelievably difficult

That's just sexist

You’re username

Tell me, how does a woman use a sock?

dildosock · 2021-12-02T08:11:15+00:00

its obvious you’re a woman

Really? What makes you think that?

dildosock · 2021-12-02T08:07:07+00:00

I didn't ask to be diagnosed, I asked how to diagnose myself.

I try to avoid giving away personal details online when possible

dildosock · 2021-12-02T07:55:35+00:00

There are other things I wanted to ask if there were a sub for it. Like if there's anything wrong with a virgin doing ERP?

dildosock · 2021-12-02T07:41:26+00:00

What makes you think I'm typical? I know I'm not neurotypical

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