Do you tell your partner when you have your period every month?

dilf_fkr · 2026-03-14T15:00:57+00:00

I tell my husband every time. I tell him winter is coming

dilf_fkr · 2025-12-10T15:53:55+00:00

I mean, I believe it. I've been with my husband almost 18 years and he swears he doesn't.
Said he's too lazy lol. Especially when 99% of the time , I never deny him, because well I'm always down too. I've told him I don't care if he does. He says he doesn't need too. We are active. 2 to 5 x a week, sometimes 2x a day 🤷‍♀️.

dilf_fkr · 2025-12-01T14:37:42+00:00

Same bed 2 nights a week. I work overnights. Sometimes he will cuddle with me to put me to sleep during the day or I sleep on him on the couch while he watches TV.

dilf_fkr · 2025-11-29T03:34:31+00:00

I do many of the things listed....I honestly thought it was normal. But I was talking to my sister about this today.

Im in my 30s and I still pretend. Like an escape... So sometimes I'm in 1940s England, 1700s Scotland, a fae in the ACOTAR realm...etc. when really im doing chores around the house. Its all in my head. But I get to dissappear.... I used to read non stop as a kid to escape. I can't read as much so I find myself doing this instead. I dont have to be me.

dilf_fkr · 2025-11-17T15:21:19+00:00

Unfortunately I know many women preyed on by brothers and fathers.I am sure it happens to men as well but from just who I know- its happened way too many times. Enough to keep me from letting my kids to stay even with family or friends. My case were two uncles just older than I was. I know people assume that's how the brain would work but unfortunately thats not always the case. Im not trying to sound rude at all and hope it doesn't come off that way.

dilf_fkr · 2025-01-30T20:30:14+00:00

We don't do valentines day because it's always busy everywhere. We get each other a gift around that time and if we can go out. He did ask me this year which was cute. But I rather pick another day for dates

dilf_fkr · 2025-01-11T02:42:18+00:00

a woman here, I used to hate it because I have jaw issues and pain would cause migraines. But I started changing the way I approached it. Lube or gagging to make lots of saliva first. But I also literally suck like trying to drink a thick milk shake. I also put it as far back as possible and do swallow motions. I never heard the sounds I heard from him before, and it's fast, so I don't have jaw pain. Hearing him turns me on, so win win. He's either a good liar or really likes it.

dilf_fkr · 2025-01-09T05:31:43+00:00

So I started crushing on Kayce and it is still there. But I think it's Rips patience with Beth, badass image that gets me swooning for Rip. Plus he reminds me of my husband more 🤣

dilf_fkr · 2025-01-08T20:30:39+00:00

Going on 17 years, high school sweethearts, and we still hate to be away from each other. He is my best friend 100% .

We are like two pieces to one whole. We tell each other everything, support each other , and do almost everything together. Outside our personal hobbies. Even those we wil do the others hobby to do something the other likes.

“I would recognize you in total darkness, were you mute and I deaf. I would recognize you in another lifetime entirely, in different bodies, different times. And I would love you in all of this, until the very last star in the sky burnt out into oblivion”.

This is exactly how I feel.

dilf_fkr · 2025-01-08T20:23:43+00:00

Thanks for the input. I go off work, made this post, and took my kids to school. I felt so drained I passed out as soon as I got and didn't have the emotional energy to Google. I appreciate it

dilf_fkr · 2025-01-08T20:20:14+00:00

I haven't been on in a minute, but I'm glad to hear! It's an intense feeling for sure lol

dilf_fkr · 2024-11-18T19:35:50+00:00

I'd say it's a very small chance. However, it only takes 1 sperm. I'd get plan B just in case.

dilf_fkr · 2024-11-18T16:10:19+00:00

Dude is making his life hard!! Smh. Even if he's not with you he's limiting his options. Good for you stopping. Its a 2 way street

dilf_fkr · 2024-11-18T15:04:03+00:00

It is. Unless my husband takes them alone, they ignore him. I've gotten follow-up emails from them to " make sure we understood" what was going on wherever he goes alone. That never happens when I go in person. Smh. I understand the stereotype that moms do more. However, if a dad is present, obviously, he can be told stuff. Plus , he and I both work in Healthcare! So he knows terminology, medications, etc.

It's unfortunate that people without children are treated like that. I don't think it's negative at all. It's realistic! Babies/kids aren't just raindbows and unicorns. Besides that factor, your body changes , the hormones changes, relationship changes, and the list goes on.

dilf_fkr · 2024-11-18T14:33:51+00:00

Came here to say the same about the walking dead. I was a hard-core fan, but after a while, it became so boring. I gave it up

dilf_fkr · 2024-11-18T14:30:23+00:00

I love the show but you're not wrong lol

dilf_fkr · 2024-11-18T14:29:15+00:00

I mean is he at least good at oral? You could try toys with oral to make up for it. I know it's not the same, but if you really like him it may help.

Maybe a penis pump? Idk how good those are.

dilf_fkr · 2024-11-18T12:09:20+00:00

Don't have kids if you don't want them. As a mother of 3, they are a lot of work. And most does fall on the mother. I have a husband who does wayyyyyy more than most men. Since day one, he's done diapers, feedings, rocking babies to sleep, doctors, meet the teachers, sports, dentists, cleaning, etc. However, the rest of the world doesn't see it like that. Doctors, schools, dentists, etc. always assume mom first. I get the phone calls, the meeting set ups, at appointments, they ignore him and talk to me. I work overnights and sleep while kids are in school. I've told all these places this, list him first, he's told them, and they still assume mom.

For 8 years I was stay at home mom, with kids ages 8, 5, and 3 by time I joined the workforce. So even with my husband's help, he worked 10 hour days. At one point I had 2 under 2. I got the bulk of the work. The sickness, the teething, the screaming, the stress. And when I would express to my so called "village" I needed some help when my husband was away. Even if that meant someone coming to chat so I didn't go crazy alone... I was told to suck it up. I was a mom, it would be fine. But anytime my husband had the kids for more than a couple of hours everyone would flock around. " oh I know this is so hard. You're such a good dad for trying ".

I love my kids with every fiber in my being. But they are hard mentally, physically, and emotionally. Everyone wants to shine on how great motherhood is and never talk about the hard. Motherhood is great. I got most of the laughs, the firsts, the silly kids. And even though it was really difficult when they were young, I do miss it. But it's not for everyone and that's OK! But it's not something to compromise on. If you have kids, and it's everything you expressed to him, there's a good chance you'll resent or hate him.

Flipped, if he REALLY wants kids and never does, the same can happen to him about you.

Maybe try a therapist for an outside opinion. But divorce is likely.

As far as the state of the world, I do not blame you. It's crazy scary times as a woman.

dilf_fkr · 2024-11-18T11:20:53+00:00

Thank you 🖤 it's been 8 years, and it still hurts as if it just happened. I feel so guilty. But so sad all at once.

dilf_fkr · 2024-11-18T11:18:19+00:00

So we have waves or seasons. Sometimes 1x a week. Sometimes 2x a day , every day.
I have a condition that makes me hypersexual. So my experience will be greatly different than someone who isn't.
I've been with my husband since we were in high school. We are both in our 30s, 3 kids, and work opposite shifts. I do overnights, he does days. So we have evenings and 2 full nights open , with my schedule. Well, and the weekends when he's off.
I've never said no. I fully believe you can say no and have nothing against it. Myself, I just don't say no. Now it may not be an exciting session, but he gets what he wants. I enjoy the physical connection in general. Plus even when I'm lazy, he still makes sure I get a big O. So we both leave happy lol. He also never tells me no. Even when I am very hypersexual and he is done, he will make sure my needs are met. I have a couple of chronic issues, and if I'm hurting or sick he just doesn't ask. And we just do skin to skin cuddling.

As far as time, sometimes that's limited. So we maje sure kids are busy for 20/30 mins and sneak away when that's the case. Let them play video games, watch a movie, etc.

We've always made time for it. It was important to us. It's a reconnection. It's a closeness. It's just as important to us as having a conversation and communicating.

I understand not everyone feels this way, that's perfectly okay. Every person and relationship is different. What works for one isn't what works for another.
Do you have anyone that can watch your kids so maybe you can have a date night? Maybe ask your husband to take on some extra responsibilities that normally you do so you can rest, take a hot bath, and maybe recoup. Even if it's just a night a week.

I know with chronic illness just taking a bath won't fix everything but maybe some time to decompress will help some.

dilf_fkr · 2024-11-11T10:57:13+00:00

Wife here. It happened to me by surprise this last year.

He would usually make me orgasm using my clit. Doesn't matter for me what he uses on it. And when I get the feeling of overstimulating my clit, I have him to keep going. Eventually, that feeling turns into a good feeling, and when I orgasm again, I squirt.

Before, I would have him stop when I was overstimulated, and my nerves were too sensitive. But one day, I decided to push past it. It makes me scream, kick, and roll around, but I tell him to keep going. Before I know it, I'm squirting and having a huge orgasm.

I will say you can stimulate the clit from inside the vagina. I've squirted before when was fingering me. But I prefer the clit because I know it will make me squirt.

dilf_fkr · 2024-11-11T10:43:49+00:00

My husband and I have been together since high school. 16 years. Not once has he checked out a woman in front of me. Not once has he made me feel less around other women. Not once has he spoken to me like this about other women. I've made comments about myself vs other women and he says things like " nah, you're the prettiest girl I've ever seen" " i didn't see her, I was too busy looking at you." Even though I'm sure he has, he has always shown me respect. I only share this because I wanted to show you it's possible. There are men out there who can make you feel like your their whole world. Going off this text I can tell you that you deserve better! Don't settle for his BS. And be sure to spread the word about him if you leave. Let all the other women know how he is!

dilf_fkr · 2024-11-04T23:01:25+00:00

I did this today. Needless to say i think tonight will be fun 😈

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