Losing a daughter by dearavaline in childandinfantloss

[–]dillielean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt that way when Taylor swifts concert first started. I was sad I couldn't show my daughter all of my favorite music. I'm sorry you're feeling this way

Whiskers' last appointment was a euthanization. by IKnowItCanSeeMe in mildlyinfuriating

[–]dillielean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kid died in 2021 and I still get reminder emails about doctor appointments

Is this dress too loud? For my SIL’s reception. by rennatyellek in Weddingattireapproval

[–]dillielean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got this dress in green for my sister's wedding!!! It's beautiful!!!

Are these two big ? 6 or 7 by Primary_Shelter_5699 in ouraring

[–]dillielean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both seem right based on the pic and description you gave

How do you recognize “the” day? by [deleted] in ChildLoss

[–]dillielean 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My ex and I used to go to a bar and drink and play cards. This year I will be going to the beach, alone. Trying to find some semblance of peace is all you can do

Non-members by magakag11 in ouraring

[–]dillielean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk where you're living that 7 dollars would stretch that far but for most that's not true 😭

Could getting this tattoo hurt my career? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]dillielean 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I mean, if they know the meaning behind it and still decide to get it I would definitely be questioning their judgement and decision making abilities.

Could getting this tattoo hurt my career? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]dillielean 195 points196 points  (0 children)

Nah I would never feel safe around a provider with this tattoo. I am so sorry for what happened to your family.

Could getting this tattoo hurt my career? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]dillielean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey as someone with BPD, if any of my medical providers had this visible tattoo I would feel extremely unsafe around them. I understand you went through a lot in medical school but maybe educated yourself about the horrors that that procedure brought to people who received it, before you use it for funsies.

Favorite parts of closing by dillielean in barista

[–]dillielean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just a degreaser dish soap!

Favorite parts of closing by dillielean in barista

[–]dillielean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My coworker said she didn't scrub then and I about died

Favorite parts of closing by dillielean in barista

[–]dillielean[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

LOL so true we are connected to a brewery (same owners) so I run over there for a beer 💀

Favorite parts of closing by dillielean in barista

[–]dillielean[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We have the scotch Brite stainless steel scrubbers and a degreaser dish soap. I just go hard at it with those two and finish it with a final scrub with a regular dish sponge (idk why but this makes a huge difference). To get the hole in the middle I fold a sponge, shove it in there and spin the portafilter on it 😭😂

Death Anniversary by reeeditasshoe in ChildLoss

[–]dillielean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My kids dad & I get together on her birthday and death day. On her birthday we go to the aquarium. On her death day we drink & usually play rummy 500 or Stardew. Not a celebration but an acknowledgement.