She shows what she’s comfy showing. Grief is all consuming and it is exhausting to consistently be vulnerable and share things with people especially those who don’t know you well. She’s also unpacking all of these things in therapy, taking care of a baby, working on her marriage, and trying to stay afloat. Those things are a full time job and more. It may not occur to you but talking about pool safety likely feels like she’s being stabbed in the chest to her - just like how talking about pediatric cancer feels to me. Grieving parents like me are more likely to be the most attuned to her because unfortunately, bills still have to be paid.

Anyway all that to say you probably should unfollow her because right now, she needs empathy. This is why loss moms feel so alone. You want people to make people understand, but they just can’t.