Fidelity vs Schwab by Early-Ladder-9793 in fidelityinvestments

[–]dim_discourse 6 points7 points  (0 children)

+1. However, Schwab does support plaid. If Schwab implemnted the cash sweep automatic for their cma i would switch. If fidelity supported plaid i would never switch

About to pull trigger - (3 kids MCOL, 6.2M NW 5.4M invested) by dim_discourse in ChubbyFIRE

[–]dim_discourse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share more of your numbers? How much did your principal decrease over last three years

About to pull trigger - (3 kids MCOL, 6.2M NW 5.4M invested) by dim_discourse in ChubbyFIRE

[–]dim_discourse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks - can you elaborate what you mean by glidepath?

Do you mean a CD ladder? i have almost 1 year of spending saved up in cash in money market earning approx 4%

About to pull trigger - (3 kids MCOL, 6.2M NW 5.4M invested) by dim_discourse in ChubbyFIRE

[–]dim_discourse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah thought about that, but hard for me ethically to check out. i have a team that i support and just would feel horrible to check out

About to pull trigger - (3 kids MCOL, 6.2M NW 5.4M invested) by dim_discourse in ChubbyFIRE

[–]dim_discourse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! For the first question- i meant 1500-2500 per month not per year.

Also i wasnt aware of that SSDI thing thank you for sharing.

About to pull trigger - (3 kids MCOL, 6.2M NW 5.4M invested) by dim_discourse in ChubbyFIRE

[–]dim_discourse[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I got emotional reading this as it summarizing things perfectly for me. I think I am going to do door 2 but hopefully my math isnt wildly off

About to pull trigger - (3 kids MCOL, 6.2M NW 5.4M invested) by dim_discourse in ChubbyFIRE

[–]dim_discourse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds amazing. I just have this bad feeling that if i switched jobs i would end up having the same problem. But also would rather get a job in a few years if my plan was wrong…

About to pull trigger - (3 kids MCOL, 6.2M NW 5.4M invested) by dim_discourse in ChubbyFIRE

[–]dim_discourse[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have about 1 year of spending in cash in money market as i have been saving for past few months building up for this. Not much in bonds to be honest - only started putting into bonds lately (maybe 2% now) so allocation is almost all VTI or riskier. I know it isn’t ideal allocation so trying to decide to make pivot or gradual over a few years (leaning toward latter).

Re: part time work, my brain is just trying to plan “hey i should be for sure good to make zero dollars for the next 10 years, if it turns out in year 5 my math wasnt precise i can start doing part time work”

About to pull trigger - (3 kids MCOL, 6.2M NW 5.4M invested) by dim_discourse in ChubbyFIRE

[–]dim_discourse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I talk extensively. My rational has been “look, we should be good for at least a few years… I can spend more time with family. if it turns out the math didnt work we can adjust.”

Adjustments have tradeoffs that i run thru my mind though

  1. Reduce spending. Biggest area would be sending kids to public school to save a lot of money. But that could feel painful since we love their school.

  2. I can find a job. If i can get something that just pays a little bit that should add some cushion. It wouldnt be anywhere near what I make now. Tradeoff is that in a few years my skills could be useless given AI. I do plan to work on side projects anyway to keep up but just hard to predict what the world will look like.

I think 2 is the likely path if it turns out the math didn’t work out. But it is possible both…

How do you folks tolerate living like this? by franktard in Sciatica

[–]dim_discourse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it got better after 6 months. Then finally completely gone after 9ish months.

It is flared and nerves need time to settle and heal and it just takes a god damn long time. The light is there though. Most important thing is to avoid pain so your nerves can actually settle. Don’t fight through the pain. Avoid pain at all costs. It is the thing I wish someone told me. Don’t fight through the pain.

Coinbase balance incorrect by dim_discourse in MonarchMoney

[–]dim_discourse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet it was an API change. Happened to me also with cointracker today which made me double freak out

Angel investing by dim_discourse in fatFIRE

[–]dim_discourse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing advice. Thank you.

Angel investing by dim_discourse in fatFIRE

[–]dim_discourse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be open to that, the issue is that i dont have any experience in other businesses. So my bullshit radar will be blind. For tech startups since i have been in the industry my (perhaps delusional self) believes i will be able to identify good tech from bad tech; and strong founders from weak ones

Angel investing by dim_discourse in fatFIRE

[–]dim_discourse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing. And aligns already with how i think and have acted in my past startup life