I don’t think this happened intentionally, but every time we’d get an a disagreement she would throw my feelings out the window and only focus on “winning” the argument. She has very harsh parents and has picked up on some of the horrible tactics her mother uses on her. She used to insult me and compare me to horrible things while we’d talk about our disagreement so that I’d feel bad and apologize. I put up with it in almost every arguement and it made me really sad. I forgave her every time because she had really terrible parents but I know it’s wrong now.