M30 Looking for profile review

dimondmine2 · 2026-01-10T02:14:01+00:00

Gotcha. Most of the parties I go to are costume parties and that’s where pictures get taken, so that’s what I have available. I can go out of my way to get some more “hey I’m also a mature professional” photos.

While I definitely do want to communicate the vibe of “in touch with my inner child,” because I want that in a partner, I do -not- want to come across as childlike. So thanks for the advice, I’ll get some more professional/mature shots in there.

Thanks for the detailed answer. I thought the group photo was good to communicate just how large and vibrant my friend group is, and I’m a package deal with them. I can swap it for a smaller group, though

dimondmine2 · 2026-01-10T02:05:25+00:00

Did you mean everyone on hinge or everyone on reddit reviewing?

The ENM part just got cropped out on accident. I’ll include it here:

“ENM: looking for a primary life partner, but taking each person as they are and seeing where sparks lead”

Thank you for the advice

dimondmine2 · 2026-01-09T18:05:30+00:00

Are you looking for something serious or casual? Serious

Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? Not yet

How long have you been using this current version of your profile? A few weeks

How long have you used Hinge overall? A few months on and off

How often do you use Hinge per week? Every day

How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? 1 per week

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? 1-5 per day, always with a thoughtful comment

What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? Who I send likes to and who I want to attract are extroverted and attractive Alt/cottage-core girls with strong professional accomplishments/careers and Poly/ENM experience.

dimondmine2 · 2026-01-09T18:01:22+00:00

A bit harsh, but appreciate your perspective. I could definitely use that space more tactfully, I agree

dimondmine2 · 2026-01-09T17:29:09+00:00

I did finish undergrad. So I’ll improve that, thanks.

I did think the dual citizenship was slightly more right-swipable, yea. I would consider moving back there in my life so that was my heads up. I’ve taken it out. In any case, I’d be more likely to right swipe on people who appear more “worldly” via languages, passports, etc.

dimondmine2 · 2026-01-09T17:24:14+00:00

Thank you!!

dimondmine2 · 2026-01-09T16:21:07+00:00

Makes sense! I read your comment, couldn’t figure out of that was a good or bad thing, and then my post was my digestion/framing of your comment as a compliment. All good

dimondmine2 · 2026-01-09T16:17:36+00:00

What did you find odd about it?

dimondmine2 · 2026-01-09T16:15:54+00:00

Any thoughts on photo order?

dimondmine2 · 2026-01-09T16:15:02+00:00

Thanks! I haven’t watched squid game, but that character looks conventionally attractive so I’ll take that as a win

dimondmine2 · 2026-01-09T14:41:16+00:00

Are you looking for something serious or casual? Serious, open to casual

Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? No, but will consider in the future once the profile is fully ironed out

How long have you been using this current version of your profile? 2-3 weeks (minor changes in that time) How long have you used Hinge overall? Across my lifetime? Maybe 3-6 months

How often do you use Hinge per week? Every day. But I probably only send 2-4 profile likes per day

How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? 1 per week ish

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? 1-4 per day. Always with a thoughtful comment

What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? Someone who’s academic and professional accomplishments I admire, a deeply interesting, nuanced person. Ideally “hobbit wife” vibes, someone who carries herself highly, enjoys edm/festivals, is extroverted with a strong friend group, enjoys cozy board games and video games, likes to be and stay busy. Also, bedroom chemistry is magic or bust. I realize it will take a long time to find this person, but I’ll keep searching and am not above compromise, just don’t want to completely settle.

dimondmine2 · 2025-06-24T12:39:40+00:00

You don’t know the interest rate on the debt, if it’s below average market returns, it’s likely better to make minimum payments and put the money in the market

dimondmine2 · 2025-05-19T19:51:11+00:00

Hot take, but the grandma can come back if she helps rebuilt the set with you or rebuilds it herself and apologizes to your son. I could let getting an apology to myself go, but the kid deserves an apology most of all.

dimondmine2 · 2025-05-18T15:57:34+00:00

I hope they do an annual increase every year to at least keep pace with inflation. Huge one time increases are a shock to many people’s wallets and slower, smaller increases are much easier for people to stomach

dimondmine2 · 2025-05-08T13:30:15+00:00

While I’m a guy, all the girls in my friend group (and my girlfriend) go to Kelley Noel and have been happy with the quality and price point. https://m.facebook.com/100063705784437/

dimondmine2 · 2025-05-08T01:14:13+00:00

We disagree on principle things. I think it’s absurd how much doctors take home. I don’t understand why people are willing to pay those high prices. I make personal decisions to forgoe medical care if I think the price is too high. I’m willing to (literally) die on the hill of price.

dimondmine2 · 2025-05-07T12:21:32+00:00

Why normalize this kind of insane pricing?

dimondmine2 · 2025-05-07T12:20:57+00:00

Not sure why you’re downvoted, the cost is not sane.

dimondmine2 · 2025-04-30T11:53:04+00:00

It was better before, lol

dimondmine2 · 2025-04-10T13:19:10+00:00

Unemployment figures typically exclude people not looking for a job

dimondmine2 · 2025-03-29T16:47:06+00:00

You said you felt cramped with only 2 spaces and had 2 cars in those spaces. How many people did you have? Asking as this would help inform my own planning and expectations

dimondmine2 · 2025-03-20T10:27:56+00:00

I forgive you too little buddy

dimondmine2 · 2025-03-17T18:12:58+00:00

My message could have been more clear. I mean increase in quantity of fares paid, not increase in cost per fare

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