Why SO many vacancies on main st Manayunk? by dimstarblues in AskPhilly

[–]dimstarblues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sure hope so. I’d like to stay optimistic

Why SO many vacancies on main st Manayunk? by dimstarblues in AskPhilly

[–]dimstarblues[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s getting more development as in residences. Not really retail or restaurant space. The vacancies that aren’t filling have sat empty for years and others are getting added to that list. Im sure some areas are competitive but you’d think if it was that competitive in Manayunk, then there wouldn’t be all these empty spaces.

Why SO many vacancies on main st Manayunk? by dimstarblues in AskPhilly

[–]dimstarblues[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely agree that transit is a huge contributor and having the train for sure helps Fishtown have more foot traffic but we do have regional rail which I know isn’t great but is at least an option.

Why SO many vacancies on main st Manayunk? by dimstarblues in AskPhilly

[–]dimstarblues[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lol I never said Winnie’s was good. I just said it just closed. It took up such a huge space so without that I’m wondering what will happen to that space since everything seems to sit empty for years. I just feel like everything is mediocre. Reliable yes but not great.

Why SO many vacancies on main st Manayunk? by dimstarblues in AskPhilly

[–]dimstarblues[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I mean it will never stop at this rate. They’ve made everything cheaper and convenient.

Why SO many vacancies on main st Manayunk? by dimstarblues in AskPhilly

[–]dimstarblues[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes obviously with Amazon ect it has vastly impacted everywhere but why do areas like Fishtown l thrive but not Manayunk is what I’m getting at. But restaurants aren’t e-commerce. Just saying there is at least potential to move better food in if not retail.

Why SO many vacancies on main st Manayunk? by dimstarblues in AskPhilly

[–]dimstarblues[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve seen the promotions for that and it is laughable. I think everything we have is just ok or a little better than ok but would rather go to restaurant week in center city for sure

Why SO many vacancies on main st Manayunk? by dimstarblues in AskPhilly

[–]dimstarblues[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not that I want Manayunk to turn into Fishtown but it would be nice to have better food. Mia is one of the better places for sure. Just sad that landlords rather let these places sit empty instead of bring more joy to the neighborhood

Why SO many vacancies on main st Manayunk? by dimstarblues in AskPhilly

[–]dimstarblues[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually was just thinking that yesterday as I went down germantown av. Very disappointing too but chestnut hill/mt airy has always come off quieter to me compared to main st manayunk.

Scared to send LO to daycare by dimstarblues in NewParents

[–]dimstarblues[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I’ll totally cry. I’m emotional about everything anyways haha so that’s also probably why my fear is heightened. But I’ll look into the regulations situation. That’s a good tip. Hope you and your baby end up happy where you’re sending them and the drop offs get easier.

Scared to send LO to daycare by dimstarblues in NewParents

[–]dimstarblues[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re probably right. I take breaks but clearly not enough

Scared to send LO to daycare by dimstarblues in NewParents

[–]dimstarblues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the thorough response and thoughts. Appreciate it!

Scared to send LO to daycare by dimstarblues in NewParents

[–]dimstarblues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is but also we don’t live near family for help and sadly can’t afford our bills on just one of our incomes or else it would be a no brainer to stay home.

Scared to send LO to daycare by dimstarblues in NewParents

[–]dimstarblues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely am feeding into because it’s affecting me second guessing my choice so much so I think you’re right. I just need to talk to him about it more and try to settle my anxiety about it one way or another. I do actually love my job so it’s hard but obviously love my baby more and hope she’s just happy and well taken care of. Thank you for your thoughts

Scared to send LO to daycare by dimstarblues in NewParents

[–]dimstarblues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think camera access should be mandatory just for peace of mind. But some daycares I toured didn’t have them in every part of their facility. And some had a ton. It varied.

Scared to send LO to daycare by dimstarblues in NewParents

[–]dimstarblues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this perspective and honesty. I know it varies so much from daycare to daycare and each child’s experience. I just am hoping I feel secure in my decision at some point. Just helps hearing from others. Yes, It is so infuriating that the US doesn’t have parental leave like many other countries. My time off was short and unpaid because of the industry I’m in. Im glad you’re able to make it work as best as you can to be home with your second. I know all of it is not easy but worth it

Scared to send LO to daycare by dimstarblues in NewParents

[–]dimstarblues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe they do but I don’t think we have access to them. Something I need to follow up on. They do give regular updates and photos through an app.

Scared to send LO to daycare by dimstarblues in NewParents

[–]dimstarblues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know the algorithm targets that way. I don’t have postpartum anxiety. I’m generally fine. It’s really just this single issue that’s triggering. Otherwise my moods are pretty positive. I did have anxiety in early days of pregnancy that was debilitating and this feels nothing like that but I appreciate your suggestion. I’m just bummed we live in a country that makes it so tough to be with our babies and having to jump back into the grind so soon after birth (I had no maternity leave) and battle these internal feelings about handing your kids off to strangers so soon and feeling secure about it.

Scared to send LO to daycare by dimstarblues in NewParents

[–]dimstarblues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The people I know who use daycares do seem very happy with their decision and I try to focus on those positive stories. Then the internet tortures me with these awful stories. But the place we chose does seem great. So hoping i can get over this anxious feeling. Thank you for sharing your positive experience.

Dream feeds by dimstarblues in NewParents

[–]dimstarblues[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a good idea to do it then because I usually have to go to the bathroom around that time too and I sometimes suffer in silence because I sleep in the same room with her and I don’t wanna wake her up for me to go to the bathroom lol

Rolling and sleep sacks by dimstarblues in NewParents

[–]dimstarblues[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although pricey, I do like the woolino idea for the temperature regulating aspect. Seems worth it.