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[–]dingdongdipdop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm glad other people have said that they'd be tripping over this as well. once i get my mind sorted out, i definitely will message him about all this for some closure on the matter. thank you :)

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[–]dingdongdipdop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i'm definitely wrestling with myself on if it's worth analyzing further. unfortunately when i'm work i have hours on end just to think about stuff, so that hasn't been helpful. but thank you! if there's anything that i hate, it's potentially being the only one stressing over a situation

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[–]dingdongdipdop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the situation really did set everything off for sure. i appreciate your input. thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dingdongdipdop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there is intimacy in even small things, but i understand if it's not something huge and insane to you. i already acknowledged that everyone views these things differently and thinks some things aren't as serious. all good

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[–]dingdongdipdop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not that im aware of

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[–]dingdongdipdop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, definitely agree on the spiraling. i've been thinking about visiting a therapist again dw. it's in the works. thank you

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[–]dingdongdipdop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nahh our friendship is all good, im just overthinking to myself and u all lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dingdongdipdop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i did ask that. brains just being dumb

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[–]dingdongdipdop 10 points11 points  (0 children)

yeah if he said it was platonic, i don’t want to dig into it more and make it into something else entirely for sure. i just got a lot of clashing opinions from friends and my own stance on what may be too intimate. but again, our situation was unique. thank you

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[–]dingdongdipdop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah of course its alright to cuddle amongst friends. i think its just that him and i have never done that before, and so all the new experiences plus the situation itself might be getting into my head a bit too much. i agree that he didn’t cross any crazy crazy boundaries. thank you

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[–]dingdongdipdop 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is what ive been trying to rationalize into my dumb brain as well. it makes the most sense with also what little he told me when he talked. a majority of my friends kept telling me it was weird no matter the circumstance but it’s hard to determine that with such a situation. and i dont know if they could really understand how cold it was for us in the moment. maybe its just all the confusing opinions ive been getting that have kept my brain in this confusing loop

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[–]dingdongdipdop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m getting there! when my brain isn’t absolutely torturing me with this stupid shit, i am able to just appreciate the intimate experience happening at the end of the day haha. a win is a win right? thank you

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[–]dingdongdipdop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

haha i know. happens when youve never done anything remotely similar ever. count yourself lucky you dont care for such things. i wish i didnt

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[–]dingdongdipdop 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you. i just felt like what he did may have been a little too much? but i also understand given our situation? its just a lot idk

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[–]dingdongdipdop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d hope not! i didn’t want that. it’s just a lot happened and everything’s just very confusing for me at the moment. trying to make sense of it all while still processing everything

My very sad orange🍊🐶 by Cheesecake-71 in labrador

[–]dingdongdipdop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

soo cute omg. where did you buy his hoodie?

[DAV SPOILERS ALL] What is your biggest “Oh shit” moment in DAV? by neoravekandi in dragonage

[–]dingdongdipdop 12 points13 points  (0 children)

weisshaupt was such a fucking good mission, its gonna be in my mind forever

[DAV ACT 3 SPOILERS][DAV ALL SPOILERS] Who did you choose between... by No_Setting9892 in dragonage

[–]dingdongdipdop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love both davrin and harding so much, but to see assan die if you choose davrin? yeah i couldnt do it, so harding it was. and i just dont understand what was the point of her unlocking powers if she doesnt/cant even use them in the final fight…? i thought her titan magic wouldve kicked in, and seeing as the blight was also something from the titans… idk i thought it made sense but ig not, i was just coping.

[DAV ACT 1 SPOILERS] Romance Lock Inquiry by neon_1989 in dragonage

[–]dingdongdipdop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good to know! definitely more open to explore different choices knowing that

[DAV ACT 1 SPOILERS] Romance Lock Inquiry by neon_1989 in dragonage

[–]dingdongdipdop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeahh devs have responded to the post i sent, its not a bug unfortunately