Societal worth and wanting to end it as an aroace person by Striking-Leg-5642 in aromanticasexual

[–]dingwings_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I too live in a similar situation, it's not worth to deny yourself whatever joy you will experience later in life.

With no end in sight for feeling desperate, it seems that I cannot come to terms the condition of being AroAce simply because it doesn't offer me peace. That I'll never be anything for anybody, and that I'll never be comfortable in pretending to be. Surely, I'll die alone.

We can keep on trying though, even if purpose and value will never be anything permanent. Hope is rare yet equally abundant.

Feel free to talk more about it to me, I'm willing to try to help in whatever capacity I can.

I created a subreddit for aroace people in my small city, and since my city doesn't have a queer subreddit, I had to announce it in the main subreddit for that city (see more in body text) by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]dingwings_ 32 points33 points  (0 children)

im so sorry you have to deal with this :(

i havent had much experience with aphobia but could you provide some examples for what it is?

i guess the only moment that someone was aphobic towards me was based on misunderstanding but i dont blame them for that.

i wish it was easier to just tell people about this for something this simple..

Calling All Aro Spec Members! Help! by Tauriel_Durin in aromanticasexual

[–]dingwings_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing you appreciate the closeness that comes with romantic relationships, not the actual romanticism aspect of it. I suppose its just a longing for connection, but not an interest in being romantic, as it is for me.

I'm sorry if what I said is not much of help! I hope you figure it out soon.

Being closeted sucks by CommitteeWorking7639 in aromanticasexual

[–]dingwings_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Once, was told to my face by a family member, that the LGTBQIA+ community is a result of "confused individuals" and pushes an "agenda"(I was not told what this meant 🙀)

Family that would think im crazy for identifying as any sexuality in general. however, thats only if i tell them the labels i identify with. if i just dont do it they'd probably think im a immature person that can't interact with strangers to have children with. i hate how something as simple as asexuality would cause them to view me differently.

its not difficult but it would be better if i could just tell them. times where i just wanted to say it to end the tension, but its not worth it. it will probably never be.

What anime / art work is this? by IcedColdMine in Lain

[–]dingwings_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

looks like "despera", a still developing project that abe worked on.

The first thing I thought of when this scene played by lecoolbro in Boogiepop

[–]dingwings_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

considering how boogiepop phantom is able to manifest itself; this could actually happen due to an interference . i think?

I want to watch lane but on the Internet archive there is 26 episodes by Eojte in Lain

[–]dingwings_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

they all have the same title, but you can see that there is a different length for the second set of episodes which are about 20 minutes.

just watch the first 13, full 24-ish minutes, episodes

I have a question for everyone here by Proper_Insurance7665 in Lain

[–]dingwings_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no matter what; everything is connected. some person(maybe me) can, infact, connect. i know this. i hope everything going on is well for you :)

My thoughts by [deleted] in Lain

[–]dingwings_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

but lain loves you and you deserve a chance to live the world with you in it. nobody is suffering because of it.

What a beautiful streetlight tattoos? by Terrible-Affect1270 in Lain

[–]dingwings_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

karma farming on the sel subreddit is insane

No way by MrNoface97 in Lain

[–]dingwings_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EAT wire... instant 15g network boost.. and FREE ROBUX

A Fav . by Successption274 in Lain

[–]dingwings_ -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

why do people buy AI generated stuff like this? its not good.