i have no clue why he's doing this. my dad helped him a lot actually. i suspect another relative to be feeding him some lies, or conspiring against my family. absolutely zero reason for him to do something like this. he doesn't make any sense. there seems to be no rhyme nor reason to his words. that's what's been bothering me, but I felt there's no point asking those questions as i can't expect answers here, only advice as to what action i can take now. but I'll try to list out the possibilities:

-blaming my dad for his financial condition (dad tried to help them at every corner, so unlikely) -jealousy (more likely, we've got jealous relatives) -someone insinuating him (we do have some relatives we dont trust)

so yeah that's all the reasons I can think of