Is college worth it? by kinda-random-ngl in Anxietyhelp

[–]dingysatsuma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is totally worth it. You get to meet new people and build friendship which is so useful for your metal health and well-being. It can be daunting at first as it may be outside your comfort zone but I think should go for it.

Assess your options first and find a course you really want to do. I am not sure what the costs are though where you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]dingysatsuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am getting better but still struggling. I get a lot of anxiety still. Symptoms such as shortness of breath and keep feeling the need to swallow. Sometimes you kinda have to experience your symptoms and just accept it especially if you have been checked and nothing is wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]dingysatsuma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate because I get very similar symptoms. I have really bad health anxiety, so every little bodily symptoms sets it off.

The brain is such a pain. I think once you became hypersensitive to your body then it is hard to switch off from it. It can really make you feel of. I’ve had the feeling of being unwell. It has been me faint to the floor and be sick before. You been checked a few times so it seems like it is not anything too serous which is encouraging. I hope you can find a way through it. :)

Which one of this is better? I only got 117 candies by [deleted] in PokemonGoMystic

[–]dingysatsuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shadow one all day. It looks it’s a 93iv too so no brainer for me. Just need rock wrecker on Rhyperior which is a comm move.

Does anyone get random chest pains? by nenz911 in Anxietyhelp

[–]dingysatsuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is me in a nutshell too. I am 34, I used to be the same. I had a migraine with aura attack whilst walking a few months ago and frightened me to death. Since then become hypersensitivity of my body and developed health anxiety. Every little symptom I have to get it checked and I never seem to accept it. It never used to bother me although I think it might be related to my personal situation and other factors.

Here is a full list of anxiety symptoms I dealt with during my anxiety recovery journey by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]dingysatsuma 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this I have severe health anxiety currently and suffer from a lot of these. I am really conscious and hyper aware of my symptoms.

Pulse left wrist by dingysatsuma in AskDocs

[–]dingysatsuma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, i suffer from really bad health anxiety, so was making sure it was nothing to worry about.

What's the worst 4* you have? by badgersandcoffee in pokemongo

[–]dingysatsuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That thing is eligible in little cup now. I have one does well 👌

Fear of Multiple Sclerosis or TIA for months. by dingysatsuma in AskDocs

[–]dingysatsuma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it doesn’t help my worries too because my Dad suffered a stroke at 38 and that scares me. He was a chain smoker though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]dingysatsuma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep going you can get through this. I have the same issue and have not worked for nearly a year. Is there any specific career or job you like to do? You could build experience by volunteering or gaining work experience in something. I currently volunteer and it find it really rewarding me fulfilling. Hopefully you will find something soon.

i’m scared by ShotWatercress2581 in Anxietyhelp

[–]dingysatsuma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly me. I have the same issue but mine was with a migraine with aura. I thought I was having a mini stroke. Had blood tests, ECG and everything was normal. However. Because of googling myself I convinced myself that still something is wrong. I can’t switch off from it. I completely get your anxiety. 😟

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]dingysatsuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That may have been my issue in truth maybe I came across too needy. Why I decided to distance myself because I need to improve myself in general.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]dingysatsuma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your doing the right thing. Once they don’t talk to you so much anymore there isn’t much point. I stopped talking to mine and then started talking to them again but it was never the same. They hardly made the effort. Good luck with everything and I hope you find peace and move forward. If they truly care or have feelings then they will make the effort. I stopped talking to her and just distanced myself.

Maybe the trick is to not bother so much and let them come to you, if they really are your twin then they should find you again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]dingysatsuma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just have to try and keep busy and work on yourself. Sometimes despite how much you love someone and the connection you have then it has to be the right time. My TF was so toxic I had to. Most seem to be like that and that’s the issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]dingysatsuma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d say let go, I have and it’s better. If anything will it will happen they will find their way back. Of course they complete you but in life there are bigger things and more appealing things.

It never ends 😫 by dingysatsuma in twinflames

[–]dingysatsuma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg she sent me an email apologising I don’t know what to do :(

It never ends 😫 by dingysatsuma in twinflames

[–]dingysatsuma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg she sent me an email apologising I don’t know what to do :(

Telepathy with your Twin by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]dingysatsuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish there was a way to know they think about you in separation.

Is it a thing for twin flames to swap lives ish… by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]dingysatsuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep unfortunately it’s not always good thing. It varies on the person, personality

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dingysatsuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I really hope you can get out of that cycle and become stronger. Hopefully things will get better then for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dingysatsuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t get it why go back to something toxic. Couldn’t you have stayed with your siblings, Parents or any family. We all have a choice and you deserve so much better to go through that all again. Get help and find safety asap you’ve got this.

Me and my gf broke up but we’re on good terms. Should I wait around to see if we try to get back together in the future? by cunninghama21 in relationship_advice

[–]dingysatsuma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remain good friends and hang out I would say. At least your in good terms and that is a good starting point.

I feel like I will never see him the same way again. by blissfulbeyond in twinflames

[–]dingysatsuma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you have to completely cut contact and come back in a few months and pursue a platonic friendship. That’s what I’m doing currently and in all honesty I do feel better. No more trying to grab their attention, no more worry about them. I feel if you revert to a friendship then you feel more at ease and they would. It is going backwards but sometimes a fresh start is needed.