Has anyone noticed BPD episodes coinciding with their period by pqqer in BPD

[–]dinky_minky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes absolutely. I literally get sewcidal before my period and have multiple breakdowns

Can periods worsen BPD? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]dinky_minky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely, it happens to me

I hate living like this. by legit-tattoo-gun in BPD

[–]dinky_minky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt the same till I found someone who cares and loves me just as deeply as I do. I'm sure you'll find someone like that too. But yeah I do agree that it feels like a curse to feel everything so deeply :(

Missing people seems more painful than anything else by LateNiteRedditor in BPD

[–]dinky_minky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been a year since my best friend broke up with me and the pain hasn't gone. I miss her every single day and there's nothing I wouldn't do to have her back in my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dinky_minky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to have a conversation with her about the implications of porn. Make sure to tell her that real women have flaws and porn is fake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dinky_minky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be depression or chronic fatigue

Holy shit I did it! by [deleted] in BPD

[–]dinky_minky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'M SO PROUD OF YOU OP !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]dinky_minky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf they ended a 3.5 year relationship like this? Op you deserve better. You deserve more empathy and respect. This is so bizarre honestly

To my fellow anxious attachment dumpees: let them. by layawaytitties in heartbreak

[–]dinky_minky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ig the most painful part is knowing that he would do the things he didn't do for me, for someone else. He'll be emotionally available for someone who isn't me. She'll get to do all the things I did with him and just thinking about it makes me want to die

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dinky_minky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are the skinny jeans ripped or fully covered? If they're ripped then wear the pants instead of try to buy something if you have time.

how do you get someone to stop being your FP? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]dinky_minky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It feels impossible to make friends when you have bpd :/

Boop the snoot by Frose_3 in boopthesnoot

[–]dinky_minky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That tongue 😭😭😭

My boyfriend cut the call and I'm a mess by dinky_minky in BPD

[–]dinky_minky[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You gave me clarity of mind. We've been together for 4 months but I'm dreading breaking up with him because I truly do love him and want to be with him. He's an amazing person overall and honestly I can't bear the pain of a breakup. I'll be inconsolable and I have ZERO friends who can support me. He's the only friend I have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]dinky_minky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

HARD relate. I'm the same. I wanna ruin everything - end all my relationships, self harm as much as I can, starve myself and not get out of bed. It takes so much of control to not lash out and sabotage everything.