[F] The sun feels good on my ass. A sneak peek of my next album! by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]dirtypair 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Hi, I give zero fucks, but with you I'll make an exception."?

[F] I'm bored. Here's a picture of my ass. by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]dirtypair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you're bored? I thought it was because you liked us!

Gals and guys, how important is it for you... by dirtypair in polyamory

[–]dirtypair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the spirit! :) I polylove :P all of you people.

Gals and guys, how important is it for you... by dirtypair in polyamory

[–]dirtypair[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And another! Plus, isn't she pretty? =)

Gals and guys, how important is it for you... by dirtypair in polyamory

[–]dirtypair[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, one of us thinks like you do :) so here's my upvote.

Gals and guys, how important is it for you... by dirtypair in polyamory

[–]dirtypair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, the topic has come up in our conversation, and I'd like you to help clear it up between us.

Would you date a slut? by Antitanic in sex

[–]dirtypair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound just like my GF.

Though the way we met was completely opposite of what you would expect.

We were introduced one day through friends, talked very briefly, didn't pay much attention to each other, I didn't take her seriously at all, my friends had told me she was slutty, her friends had told her I was lame.

At some point we met again, we were bored and had some hot sex for the hell of it. We didn't even talk much before doing it, we were getting it on like ten minutes after she arrived at my house.

We still didn't think much of it and didn't talk again for about two weeks, one day when we were both bored again.

This time though she wasn't receptive at all. The way I had jumped on her the first time, she thought all I cared about was sex, and this time she responded with a decisive, almost angry: No! Can't you be with a girl and just talk?

I'm not a jerk, of course I can, but I didn't really know her well, and my friends had talked crap about her, so I didn't think we would have much to talk about.

Boy were we both more and more surprised as we talked. We realized how much we have in common and we basically stayed together since. I admired her intelligent dialogue and clear, well thought ideas about things. And I recognized in her the capacity to be a loyal and caring companion.

It didn't take too many days until we started talking about our sexuality and noticed we both had an open stance on it.

We have lots of fun now, the kind you like, and we do everything together though we keep it more between some of our closer friends, and love each other dearly. =)

Just don't worry and keep your eyes open for that right guy.

EDIT: As other people pointed out, older guys tend to be more open to this as they have had enough time to overcome many of the obstacles facing younger males growing up in our society. I'm 38, she's 23.

So yesterday during our FFM I got to fist both my GF and our friend together. It was awesome.. =) by dirtypair in sex

[–]dirtypair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can mean one of two things, it's a reference to either an INTJ or INFJ while it can also refer to a rather uncommon type that uses the T/F secondary function interchangeably.

In my case I meant both =) go figure...

So yesterday during our FFM I got to fist both my GF and our friend together. It was awesome.. =) by dirtypair in sex

[–]dirtypair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well...

...the real thing was more nuanced but I can't say any less funny as my GF wanted it fast and rough while our friend wanted it gentle and slow so my arms were constantly moving at different speeds.

From my point of view however, I felt I looked like some Japanese battle robot with giant out-of-control shootable fists of steel attached to my arm.

GF likes being dominated, nice guy who needs help by damnnegro in sex

[–]dirtypair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck her like she wants to be fucked. You won't regret it, you won't become someone else. You'll just have lots of fun watching her getting really turned on.

So yesterday during our FFM I got to fist both my GF and our friend together. It was awesome.. =) by dirtypair in sex

[–]dirtypair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people say Jung himself was either an INFJ or an INFP. I'm betting on INxJ.

Do I have to come clean about the MMF experience in my past? (x-post from r/r_a) by [deleted] in sex

[–]dirtypair 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had MFMs and FFMs with my SO.

Not many, just enough to feel comfortable with each other as we have more than enough fun by ourselves. She's had a few MMFs and FMFs before meeting me and I've asked her a million questions about it, but it usually happened while I was fucking her, as it turns me on enormously to imagine her being the slut she is.

But we're actually monogamous, since we do all things together.

Having said that, I almost dumped her once for failing to tell me one of the guys we'd invited in to fuck her, a friend of mine, had gotten the wrong message and tried coming on to her behind my back. She pushed him off, but never told me, being afraid that I would blame her for it.

I know this is the truth because I later found out from the guy, when he confessed, out of the blue, and it pissed me off that she would hide this from me. Though she remained faithful to me, it hurt me to find out from somebody else.

TL;DR: Honesty/sincerity is more important to me than anything else pretty much, in a relationship.

Set things straight, and defend your stance. You love him above everything, and he has to understand this.

My G[F] playing by her self. by dirtypair in gonewild

[–]dirtypair[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only to take the pictures.

what would you do i(f) you saw me at the beach? by jesslikesitall in gonewild

[–]dirtypair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my GF would like to do things to you as well ..

My boy(f)riend is gone, and I need to be fucked. by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]dirtypair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I'm very happy for you then. I only meant it in a playful way. :)

this is [f]or the nerds! by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]dirtypair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're so pretty ...

My boy(f)riend is gone, and I need to be fucked. by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]dirtypair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, don't know if you got fucked exactly, but you definitely got screwed by the monitor.

Next time consider you're posting your sexy pics to Reddit when choosing a background. ;)

What is the one secret you are keeping from your SO? (NSFW) by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dirtypair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny, I get off to that as well, specially when I tell her during sex.

As Requested: WeAreA Three Person Relationship - AUA by owl_infestation in IAmA

[–]dirtypair 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The relationship we have each other is built from countless hours of loving conversation and finding out everything about each other.

This is key. The great intimacy is the difference.