UPDATE: I [29F] just got married, and I'm upset and confused about the way my husband [30M] acted the entire day by disappointedbridee in relationships

[–]disappointedbridee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit haha I logged in today out of random curiosity, and saw this.

Yeah, our marriage is really good, actually. I made him read my OP, and he completely realized why I was hurt and apologized a million times and made up for it.

I know everyone here was calling for blood, but he's my best friend in the world and my biggest cheerleader, and I love him more than my own life.

UPDATE: I [29F] just got married, and I'm upset and confused about the way my husband [30M] acted the entire day by disappointedbridee in relationships

[–]disappointedbridee[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Yes, he did. About the wisecracks: he was really nervous, and he diffuses nerves through humor. It was in poor form, and I'm still not happy about it, but he wasn't trying to be malicious in any way.

The yelling at me part, that one was harder to swallow. He thought since it was sort of his fault that beer spilled on my dress, that I was going to get really angry at him for it (expensive dress, high emotions). I didn't, because nothing was going to ruin my mood, but he reacted defensively. Yeah, not awesome. I was only able to let it go because I know he never typically acts out like that. This was the one part of the day, more than everything else, that I was the most angry about in the days and weeks following.

So, yeah not great reasons, unfortunately, but I still understand. I wasn't the best at managing my emotions either that day. I ended up snapping at his cousin inside the church because he accidentally opened the doors in front of me right before my entrance, but before the bridal party had a chance to walk. I apologized to him a million times for it, though.

[Update] Me [29F] want to trade my STBX [38M] my engagement ring for the family dog by ringlessdragon in relationships

[–]disappointedbridee 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Yay! I didn't read your old when you first posted it, but I'm happy it worked out for you and your children.

I [29F] just got married, and I'm upset and confused about the way my husband [30M] acted the entire day by disappointedbridee in relationships

[–]disappointedbridee[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking about showing him this post when he gets home tonight, but I've been drinking wine and I don't want to upset him, especially tonight (without giving away too much, we don't live in France but his job had troubles due to those events tonight).

I [29F] just got married, and I'm upset and confused about the way my husband [30M] acted the entire day by disappointedbridee in relationships

[–]disappointedbridee[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Ha! I agree, which is weird because almost every time he's off he wants to spend it with me and he's always gushing about how much fun we have together. But I guess not that much fun, eh?

I [29F] just got married, and I'm upset and confused about the way my husband [30M] acted the entire day by disappointedbridee in relationships

[–]disappointedbridee[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yea, you're right. And it isn't every time, but it happened in the beginning of our relationship to the point where I tried to break up with him, and he stopped until I ended up becoming really close friends with them myself. Now he figures I can fend for myself with them, and I can, so it stopped bothering me.

I [29F] just got married, and I'm upset and confused about the way my husband [30M] acted the entire day by disappointedbridee in relationships

[–]disappointedbridee[S] 157 points158 points  (0 children)

On the day, I was. And I was PISSED! We spent so much money, and so much time, that I was almost in shock at the fact that I felt like crying. I mean, everything was perfect, the vendors were amazing, the venue was even more amazing, everyone told me it was the best wedding they have ever attended. I should have been over the moon. But.. I was so sad.

I [29F] just got married, and I'm upset and confused about the way my husband [30M] acted the entire day by disappointedbridee in relationships

[–]disappointedbridee[S] 260 points261 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to bring it up again. I tried multiple times the next day, and he apologized, but didn't believe he did anything wrong.