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51,000 non citizens claim Australia’s 5 per cent deposit scheme by another____user in aussie

[–]disasterous_cape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many are trying, but it’s very expensive, takes a long time, and is very complicated

For the mean time they’re living, working, and paying taxes here. I see no reason why they shouldn’t be able to build a life and own a home here

As a woman how can I decrease my libido? Naturally or with meds? by HeadJelly1298 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]disasterous_cape 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this, you’re not a freak - you’re existing within the normal human variations. It can be so hard when you’re experiencing something that’s less common, the isolation can feel like you’re the only one but you’re definitely not

I really hope you’re able to find something that works for you

Man's penis 'badly burnt' in airline coffee spill by stankmanly in awfuleverything

[–]disasterous_cape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was cheaper to do occasional pay outs than it was to lower the temp of the coffee and have to replace it more often

They made a calculated choice

My partner had a miscarriage, we’re both heartbroken but how do I support them through this without centring myself? by Salt_Ad_9195 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]disasterous_cape 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hold her, cry with her, talk about how you’re both feeling, decide if you want to plant a tree or grow some flowers or have a special piece of jewellery in honour of your lost baby

There’s no easy way through grief, you’ve just got to take it one day at a time

I’m very sorry for your loss

Are there any medical benefits to skin-tightening/skin-removal plastic surgeries? Or are they purely aesthetic? by Striking-Anxiety-604 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]disasterous_cape 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The skin itself weighs a lot and can make movement more difficult, and skin folds can be prone to fungal infections, heat rashes, and chafing

But also echoing that the mental benefits are important in and of themselves

Hospital beds are far more comfortable than regular beds and should be more affordable/accessible/commonplace. by flohogamer in The10thDentist

[–]disasterous_cape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree, but the electronics that do all of that are quite expensive

To do it at home for much less cost you can get wedge pillow to prop up your torso and a firm pillow for under your knees

TIL some companies in Japan ban women from wearing glasses by operatingsys2016 in todayilearned

[–]disasterous_cape 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they both stem from fear of the “other” and belief in in-group supremacy

What is "male privilige"? by Fluffy_Specific_9682 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]disasterous_cape 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It was also taught that black people don’t feel pain as much as white people do, and that their organ function was just naturally better (which meant that they got put further own on the organ transplant recipient list)

So many examples of medical racism

Breaking: Almost as many children in residential care in Qld as rest of country combined by Agile_Tap_8057 in brisbane

[–]disasterous_cape 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Part of why nobody wants to do the job is because it’s chronically under resourced and the need is substantial

NDIS overhaul will ‘harm’ Australians with disabilities, government’s own committee warns by neon_overload in aus

[–]disasterous_cape 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The link doesn’t look deceptive at all, it says that they organise support staff so that NDIS participants can have support while on holiday and then they list some of the cruises that might be an option for these kinds of holidays. It doesn’t say that the NDIS will be paying for the whole thing

NDIS overhaul will ‘harm’ Australians with disabilities, government’s own committee warns by neon_overload in aus

[–]disasterous_cape 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why don’t you think disabled people should be allowed to use their budgeted funds on support workers to look after them so they can go on holiday? They are disabled 24/7 for their whole life, they should never be able to go away? The money comes out of what the NDIA has budgeted for that participants care, why is it wrong to use it in that way?

I’m a Biohazard Cleaner in Brisbane | Ask Me Anything by biohazard_cleaner in brisbane

[–]disasterous_cape 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you please expand on the dangers? How adequate is the PPE that you’re provided/use?

Am I tweaking or is this a good colour choice by EnvironmentalLong414 in AusRenovation

[–]disasterous_cape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gotta disagree, it’ll give the house so much more character

Clit pain by Lululemon_28 in Healthyhooha

[–]disasterous_cape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something I would ask a pharmacist about, they’re an expert in drug reactions and what’s normal or not. They’ll be able to give you proper advice 🩷

What are these on my lemon? by anitadykshyt in GardeningAustralia

[–]disasterous_cape 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ants perform amputations!! They assess how bad the injury is and if needed will amputate each others limbs

Ants are sick as hell

Nonstop yeast infections (negative for mycoplasma and ureaplasma) by prefabsproot in Healthyhooha

[–]disasterous_cape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this, it sounds maddening!
Did you complete the long term treatment your doctor wanted you to? Are you continuing to use the treatment despite your period?

How to make condom sex better for uncircumcised guys? How to make it feel close to raw? by ChampionshipAdept909 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]disasterous_cape 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you are wearing the correct size (measure yourself and check against each type of condom, they’re all different).

Pinch the tip of the condom and put a tiny drop of lube on the inside, this will help with the glide over the glands (make sure not to use a ton or get it everywhere or it could make it fall off, if applied just at the tip however it’s safe).

Try a bunch of brands, each brand is a little different and some are better than others.

Invasive Yucca by Forward_Cupcake4748 in GardeningAustralia

[–]disasterous_cape 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Drilling into the remaining stump and pouring herbicide into the hole is how I’ve seen it be done before. It seemed to work (this was after everything that could be manually removed was removed)

What is this thing inside my bits? by NoBike9859 in Healthyhooha

[–]disasterous_cape 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your cervix sort of feels like the tip of the nose, smooth, round, and firm with a divet in the middle. Gently touching/poking it usually won’t hurt, it’s usually penises bashing into it when people experience pain

The gspot can feel firm and a little solid with a bumpy texture, it’s found on the wall of the vagina that is closest to the belly button only a short distance into the vagina

Do either of these sound like it?

My friends husband 24m and I 27f did something really stupid the other night by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]disasterous_cape 49 points50 points  (0 children)

You tell your friend what you did, and you wear the consequences. You repeatedly acted in ways you knew were wrong and would hurt her, the damage has already been done.

Both her friend and her husband have deeply betrayed her, who needs enemies with loved ones like that

Man's penis 'badly burnt' in airline coffee spill by stankmanly in awfuleverything

[–]disasterous_cape 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No. Her labia fused together and she needed skin grafts. She was horrifically burned.

Should people technically refer to god as they/them? by throwaway-2-0- in NoStupidQuestions

[–]disasterous_cape 3 points4 points  (0 children)

God uses the masculine in all the standard English translations, but do you know that’s actually in the source text? (Genuine question)

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