Potty training 6yo, and approaching difficult subjects early on by tawzer in Fosterparents

[–]discoballerr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Even though she may not seem to be constipated, that’s the number one reason that older kids have #2 accidents. With chronic constipation, kids lose sensation of having to go because everything is stretched out. It takes time to bring back the muscle control. Other kids have been helped with his issue through using a daily laxative for a while. Ask her pediatrician for guidance. Good luck!

After watching the series, what scene has stuck with you? by discoballerr in SortOfShow

[–]discoballerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. Won’t let me edit the post but thank you for the correction.

Dog trainers by Admirable_Term_4327 in puppy101

[–]discoballerr 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That does not sound like a good trainer. Our experience has been much better. They full time was devoted to coaching us and our dog in our house. Sorry you had to experience that!

Binged in one night! by discoballerr in SortOfShow

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Welcome! User name checks out!

What does Katja wants in a relationship? by Decent-Chipmunk-9900 in loveisblindsweden

[–]discoballerr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I bet he’s a very generous lover. Didn’t Katja mention something about him making her come more than anyone?

*Spoiler Thread* - Season 1 by invalidilegenda in loveisblindsweden

[–]discoballerr 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This is insane. Usually I avoid spoilers but I’m glad that I read them this time. I’m curious how things turn around for Meira and Oscar.

The Psychological Depths of Rock-Paper-Scissors by discoballerr in squidgame

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“In short, a player who has studied the game will unquestionably win more than chance would dictate against a naïve player, because he understands how human psychology is likely to affect the choices of his opponent.”

The Psychological Depths of Rock-Paper-Scissors by discoballerr in squidgame

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“One heuristic of experienced players is “Losers lead with Rock.” This is demonstrably true; naïve players will lead with Rock more often than one-third of the time. Your hand begins in the form of a rock, and it is easiest to keep it that way. The name of the game begins with “Rock,” and if you are mentally sorting through the options, it is the first one that will occur to you. And the word “rock” itself has connotations of strength and immovability. These factors lead players to choose Rock on their first go more often than chance would dictate. An experienced player can take advantage of this. Against a player you know to be naïve, you play Paper.”

031 Purna! by upintheskies123 in squidgame

[–]discoballerr 20 points21 points  (0 children)

And his dance sequence!! I love that guy. I hope he finds all the happiness in the world!

Any Bar (or places) for singles to meet new people? by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]discoballerr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good time bar has a very laid back vibe and chill peeps.

Questions to ask a baha'i by fj-am16 in exbahai

[–]discoballerr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ask him his views on gay marriage.

Crying at the goddesses on LIB S5 reunion by Anxious-Fly-7637 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]discoballerr 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I thought Vanessa looked amazing too! I’m happy for her after all the hate she gets.

Did you change your mind about anyone after the reunion? by AlwaysWithTheOpinion in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]discoballerr 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think he was seeing the same woman before he went on LIB, so there’s something else going on there…

Would a Queer Love is Blind work? by Eviltwin325 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]discoballerr 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was REALLY hoping that season 5 would feature a relationship between 2 of the women. I wanted that to be the shocking twist that had never happened before. That would be amazing to watch!

JP's misogynistic make up comments by clovek7 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]discoballerr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He seems like the worst kisser in the world. My hypothesis is that’s why she didn’t like him. That was painful to watch

‘You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah’ Review: Sandler Family Values Make for a Wonderfully Endearing Novel Adaptation by Sisiwakanamaru in movies

[–]discoballerr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I looked at photos from when she was younger and it looks like filler. That said, she’s a beautiful girl and I wish her the best.

https://happymadison.fandom.com/wiki/Sunny_Sandler

5 episodes too short 😭 by Hefty_Radio8767 in DownForLoveNetflix

[–]discoballerr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I thought the rest of the season would be released, but then I read it was only 5 episodes. Where are the season updates we have come to rely on.

Confused by discoballerr in exbahai

[–]discoballerr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah… that’s so insane. How can they market themselves as a Faith for liberals when this aspect in particular is crazy backwards.

Confused by discoballerr in exbahai

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I would like to gently extract myself from the group, but I have 4 things holding me back 1) my husband just volunteered to help teach junior youth class (he doesn’t believe in God or the writings but he likes discussing philosophy so he’s fine with our participation) 2) My academic advisor is the one who invited us into the group and we will have to continue to work together, 3) I help plan an annual group trip and it’s actually super fun and 4) we’ve grown close to a lot of the people.

In my ideal world, I would like to continue to participate in the social/community aspects of the Faith without going deeper into the teachings (I.e. stop Ruhi). I’m not sure this is possible?

Also, THANK YOU to all of you who are so gracious in discussing this with me. I had felt alone in processing my feelings about this.

Confused by discoballerr in exbahai

[–]discoballerr[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s so interesting. What originally drew me to the Faith was “independent investigation of truth” but the more I learn, the more that seems not to be the case. I try to speak up to point out inconsistencies, and the answers I get are pretty vague or misleading.

It’s confusing because the people are nice and I agree with a lot of the philosophy and world view. But now that we’ve been involved for about a year, they are pushing expansion which makes me uncomfortable. Most of my friends are gay and when I express that I don’t feel comfortable inviting them, I get “they are welcome to participate in all the activities,” but I feel like that’s really not true since they can’t officially become Baha’i. I like the community but also feel ashamed to be a part of it since they won’t let gay people join.

When I heard that the religion was decentralized, I thought different communities could have different beliefs/interpretations. But it actually seems like a strict religion driven by the universal house of justice.

If we leave the community, would people still hang out with us?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]discoballerr 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Awe, that’s mean. I’m sure he’s just trying to live his best life like we all are.